what should i do?

[hurtsobad]

my boyfriend,who is 16 years older than me,im 17,is making me so angry.
he is always going out to events n shows with his so called "best friend" who is a 29 year old woman

.i scolded him b4 n kicked up a big fuss n he promised me not to do it again but now he has started again.

he maintains he does not touch her or even hold her hand when they r out.
this woman is not very attractive but what disturbs me is she is always wearing short dresses n killer heels whenever out with my boyfriend of 3 years!!!!

i see my boyfriend only once every 2 weeks as i have school n my mum dislikes him,saying he is too old 4 me.

he says this gal is just like a guy n always hangs out with their group of male friends.

whenever he goes out with her ,he says hes going out with his guy friend.now that i found out he's being lying,im very hurt.

i really duno if i should break up with him or just get a better younger guy.

my boyfriend is also quite well off so im wondering if i should get an allowance from him every month?

what should i do?does this woman want my boyfriend or wat?

BTW,before i knew my boyfriend,he already knew her.he insists they are just good friends n he even bought a sex toy for him as a gift when she wnt overseas! what the heck....!

i have met this woman b4 n when she saw me she gave me intimidating looks.god,she is old n im a young model.

[arioch]

Let me get this right - you have a boyfriend of 3 years who is 16 years older than you? You started dating him when you were 14 and he was 30?

wtf??

[katy123]

Exactly arioch! What on earth does a 30 year old guy see in a 14 year old kid? Well, we got there for sure.

Sounds to me - sorry for being harsh - but he wants the best of both worlds. I can totally agree with your mother for thinking him too old for you. Perhaps if you were in your twenties, the age gap would be different. You're only 17 - don't let this guy mess with your head. You should be out there having fun with people/guys your own age. I'd personally show him the door. AND if this 29 year old is only a friend, going out with him in killer heels and short dresses says it all. I'm sorry, but I'm 29 and have a lot of guy friends, and I certainly wouldn't dream of going out with one of them alone knowing they had a girlfriend wearing what she wears.

Are you with him because of the money situation? I had to ask because you mention an allowance? Is this guy paying you for having sex with him? I'm sorry, but I had to ask. All sounds very suspicious to me.

Concentrate on your schooling and having fun with kids your own age and forget him.

[Tone]

That's ****ing disgusting.

[RogerWilco]

Troll, anyone?