| | | Quote of the month: "What the world really needs is more love and less paper work." ~ Pearl Bailey |
| |
| 
28-03-06, 06:34 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 44
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | dump him or not-if he lied about age and schooiling, dump him or keep him lets say u meet this guy off the net-seems like a normal guy and what not-later on you find out hes 2 yrs younger he 25 not 23 and ur 21, he told you he went to university-which u need a high % wise to enter -SFU but really is attending a community college kwanten. would u dump him or would u say ah who cares and continue no biggie. lets say ur dating him for approx 2 mnths. would u continue dating him or say forgot about it. | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
| |
28-03-06, 06:45 AM
| | hu | | Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: apparently on some distant planet
Gender: 
Posts: 186
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | I'd say forget about it. Its just a net relationship. Lies wont do in a succeseful relationship. Sounds like a loser anyway, to lie about his life. | |
28-03-06, 07:23 AM
|  | Lloyd is a dirty old man "Hot Love Pancake(s)" | | Join Date: Dec 2005
Gender: 
Posts: 10,557
Thanks: 430
Thanked 612 Times in 501 Posts
| | | I think a lot of people lie when they are just getting to know someone because they want to impress.
If you REALLY like him otherwise, and if you are not omitting any other lies he may have told you, I would tell him to come clean about everything he may have lied to you about when he first met you, and let him know you will not tolerate any more lies from this point forward.
__________________  | |
28-03-06, 07:29 AM
|  | HelloWorld | | Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Shasta Co. Cali
Posts: 712
Thanks: 0
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
| |
Originally Posted by joe45 would u dump him or would u say ah who cares and continue no biggie. I would dump him. Lying is a big deal to me. I'd go so far as to say its a deal breaker. I am not rationalizin mind you, if he lied about his favorite color to you I would dump him just over that. Not because of what he lied about but just because he lied.
Originally Posted by joe45 lets say ur dating him for approx 2 mnths. Just think joe, if he will lie to you about such piddly crap as what is god dam age is and what school he goes to....he will indeed lie about things far greater. You are building a relationship on a flimsy foundation. | |
28-03-06, 07:31 AM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 1,454
Thanks: 0
Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post
| | | He may have lied initially because he didn't anticipate actually meeting you in person........or he was trying to be "anonymous" in his internet identity.
It may not be a bigger deal than that..............
So, if you like him and don't think he is a compulsive liar, and if those things aren't that big of a deal to you, I'd just overlook it. | |
28-03-06, 06:16 PM
|  | Daisy | | Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 103
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | That's up to you! I you really like him just forgive him!!! May be he liked you and wanted to make impress!! | |
28-03-06, 08:27 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 22
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | As somebody else has said, sometimes people tell little white lies hoping to impress somebody new... It really depends how much you like him, although with all of the lies he has spun, do you really know this guy, the real guy? He may be holding back other information as well. Not sure. I think I'd have to walk away. | |
29-03-06, 12:07 AM
|  | Super Moderator | | Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Santa Fe
Gender:
Posts: 9,872
Thanks: 491
Thanked 604 Times in 515 Posts
| | | Those aren't little white lies. Telling you that you look great in your new outfit when he really doesn't like it is a little white lie.
He's a lying liar who lies. That's poison. I would dump Prince William if he lied to me. | |
29-03-06, 02:55 PM
|  | Forever melancholy "Hot Love Pancake(s)" | | Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Near Vancouver, Canada
Posts: 2,117
My Mood:  Thanks: 28
Thanked 106 Times in 89 Posts
| | | Hey - I went to Kwantlen - it is NOT a community college FYI. It happens to be a university. So he wasn't lying about that.
__________________
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi | |
29-03-06, 03:23 PM
|  | ---NIHILIST--- | | Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: YOU A$$ OF A
Gender:
Posts: 5,227
Thanks: 106
Thanked 106 Times in 92 Posts
| |
Originally Posted by Lynx3 I'd say forget about it. Its just a net relationship. Lies wont do in a succeseful relationship. Sounds like a loser anyway, to lie about his life.
Gets my stamp of best advice for this question. AND THAT IS ONE IMPORTANT STAMP!.
__________________
"It is far better to grasp the universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." -Carl Sagan | | Loveforum Breaktime | | | | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
| |
| Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Rate This Thread |  Linear Mode | |
Posting Rules
| You may not post new threads You may not post replies You may not post attachments You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off | | |
All times are GMT +8. The time now is 08:12 PM.
| |
