Danni & I

**HOLLY** · 30-03-06 09:29 PM

I have a problem with this girl, le me give you some back ground info

We meet last july 6th at club abyss. Abyss closes at 2am. I walked up to her around 1:30 and told she was really cute and we started to dance. I could just feel the sparks. I ask for her and number and she said NO give me your and I will call u. so im thinking ****, she not calling!!! When the nite was over she turned to me and gave a kiss, not a deep French kiss, but the sexiest sweetest kiss! ( now I know what they mean by “love at first sight”) But I told her to call me as soon as she got home safely. So I rush home like a dick head. And watch esnp and the phone rings and its her. I was shocked. We talked for about 2 hrs, real good convo… we when on our first date the next day! It was amazing. We talked around the mall for a lil bit. Long story short. We go to beach at nite and walk & talk, I feel like I have known her for ever!!! When me ex broke up, I thought I would never be happy again!! i am so happy with her!

We saw a lot of each other a lot that summa, sometimes 3-4 days a week.. She was so beautiful. I told he I loved her a few weeks ago. I tell she pretty, perfect, just wonderful, every time I se her. Im, starting to see that she doesn’t show her love me. This really brothers me! I know I love this chic bc I have SWALLOWED my pride with her a lot!. I feel like a dick head, always asking to see her! She never tell me she misses me or asking to see me! I believe she feels the same way I do , but she neva says it!! We spend the nite together last nite and we chilled and watch a movie and when to sleep, she left in the morning, I kiss her and I told her I loved her and she didn’t say anything……

I really feeling this girl, she told she doesn’t hurt, bc she was hurt in the past. When I kiss her its like magic, I mean Walt Disney magic

**carpflounder** · 31-03-06 04:46 AM

HOLLY, if I were you I would lay off of her a little. It is obvious that you are excited about where this may go and I think thats cool. But she is probably putting the brakes on you because she does not want it to go there..or she doesn't want to go there yet.

I have encountered this phenomena lately; more girls are dating like guys and their motive for interpersonal attraction is affiliation more so than intimacy.