It's been 3 months now :)

[Mishanya]

So it has been 3 months now since my girl and I started dating and things have been sailing ultra smooth ever since then. I feel like a very few success stories at this stage and am happy with every single moment I spend with my gril.

We have met most of each other's family / distant family and only last week came back from our holiday at the gold coast



We went Wet N Wild





Now, some say that 3 months is the honeymoon period and after that prepare for the reality of it all. Funny, as we come out from this 3 months period I am feeling a whole lot closer to my girl and have nothing but good vision for the future together...

In any case, what do you guys think about the 3 months period, how has it worked for you? Did you feel things changed for better or for worse after the 3 months period? Please do tell

[clynn]

Yahooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!

Don't ask me, my track record in long term relationships isn't that great.

Okay, first long-term (5 years) - honeymoon period lasted at least a year.

[daisy]

I didn't noticed any changes after 3 months. So don't worry about it right now! I started to see some not really good changes after about a half of year...

[totalcmd]

After 3 month, i feel bore about my ex, since, we had nothing to say together. That's bad. May be i'm still young so, don't know what's a girl want or either.

[Mishanya]

Thank you for your support everybody and for your replies. I guess I shall wait and see how things go

[confused01]

just wait time will prouve but if you by anychance had any doubts it means yes usually your doubts are right. and to be honest you'll be blind for a while and things will get cleared up. and sometimes you can notice from tiny details what's really going on or going to happen.

time will prouve either the best or the worse
i hope the best

[blackiesharley]

Anything's possible. I had a 'honeymoon' with my now ex-wife for 12 years before it turned sour.

Same with my best buddy. 10 years of bliss and love. Then out of the blue one day she said 'f**k you it's over.'

Just go with the flow and enjoy it.

[Mishanya]

Quote:

Originally Posted by blackiesharley

Anything's possible. I had a 'honeymoon' with my now ex-wife for 12 years before it turned sour.

Same with my best buddy. 10 years of bliss and love. Then out of the blue one day she said 'f**k you it's over.'

Just go with the flow and enjoy it.

Wow, I'm sorry to hear about that blackiesharley. 12 and 10 Years is a really long time. One would hope that a certain degree of harmony would be in place by then. What happened to turn things sour? Was it incompatibillity issues or something totaly random?

I guess, it's safe to say that this is the kind of thing I would really like to avoid. I mean, if I spent 12 years side by side with my partner I would want to be able to trust my partner with my life and vice versa...