Not sure about this... - Love Forum

TheNinja · #1 (**permalink**) 23-05-06, 12:37 AM

Well, me and my ex have been broken up for about a month, and I feel as if I've been handling it pretty well, sad at some points but I've always been able to get myself over that by going out somewhere with my friends.

Well recently a girl that I havent seen in a long time came into the picture. I knew her way back in the day in high school, but I haven't seen her in at least 4 years, and never really hung out with her. Anyways, I wound up hanging out with her on friday and saturday, more or less by coincidence through a mutual friend of ours... yesterday she somehow managed to find my myspace profile (not really sure how she managed that) and added me as a friend, sent me a message with her phone number saying she's going somewhere with a few friends and told me to call her if I wanted to come, and wound up spending the rest of the night hanging out with her. I have two questions reguarding this, she was never really that flirty with me, perhaps because there were 3 other people with us always, including her sister, but I've never had a girl persue me in such a fashion and randomly give me her number, do you think there's any interest in me on her part? I'm not entirely sure about that. Secondly, even if you don't think she's interested, might it not be a good idea to start looking this early? Me and my ex haven't been broken up all that long, and I'm just not sure that the possibility of seeing someone else is right just yet.

blue · #2 (**permalink**) 23-05-06, 12:47 AM

theres nothing wrong with hanging out at all you need to figure out if hanging out with someone of the oposite sex is a good thing fo ryou rite now. If you are ok with it then yeah hang out with her in a friendly manor there really is no need to rush inot anything more rite now. oh and imo i think shes intrested if she found you on my space and then gave you her number i woul dsay yes.

BlackPetal · #3 (**permalink**) 23-05-06, 06:36 AM

If she had the effort to find your MySpace profile and was willing to call you out, I'd say she's interested.

dreamer101 · #4 (**permalink**) 23-05-06, 11:13 AM

dude you have just broken up with your gf recently, and although I am glad to hear that you are handling it OK, I would advice that you excerise some caution here. OK, so she made the effort to find your MSN space, etc, etc, and casually asked you out. But don't read too much into it, infact read as little as you. Just go along with the flow, if something happens great, if not, then you have a new friend. Yes, by all means, give her signs that you are interested too, but do not go head first if you know i mean. Get back on ur feet first.