In need of advice please

[Steven715]

Well hear i am again Still not called her because of various reasons whitch you will find out in a minute i am cruuentley feeling a little upset as i feel things have fcuked up like every thing elce i touch Hear goes It all started off when i was trying to text her only the message wont go through keeped comming up with message not sent fort ok fair enouth probbley a server gone down or some thig so i fugured that i would call her when a program we both watch is finished anyway befor it finished i noticed that she had come online so i started to talk to her and i said that the message wont go thorugh she said it was because she took her phone off line as she was on a contract and she wanted to end it but might be getting a new phone this weekend! Any how in the meen time she sends me anouther pic of her (We still have not met). This was all Thursday i am now on Sunday morning and not herd a thing. But i notice that she has put on her dating website that we are both on she has added the same photo to her profile and this has upset me but i am not sure if i should worry about this or not any one got any idears? Am i the only one or has she got loads of us going. I realy hope not as i think i will give up on girls altogether as i am getting nowhere in the last 4 years this is realey annoying me now what can i expect next? Chears for looking Steve

[vashti]

Why shouldn't she be talking to other guys? YOu two have no exclusivity arrangement, do you? In fact, have you even gone on a date yet? For all she knows, you are just yanking her chain.

[Steven715]

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Originally Posted by vashti

Why shouldn't she be talking to other guys? YOu two have no exclusivity arrangement, do you? In fact, have you even gone on a date yet? For all she knows, you are just yanking her chain.

What do you mean i whatevor it is i am not i realey do want to meet her and even have a relationship with her?

Edit: I was talking to my sisters boy friend he thinks that she realey like me as she would not have sent the photo i sopose things just built up in the bottle and it got a little to pressurised! The proof in the pudding will be if she tells me her new number when she gets it but i agree why would she sent her photo if she was not intrested. I think it is me i am so not used to this sort of thing and i am realey wanting things to work out and the slight mishap seems to deraile me so to speek. i think when if and when i get her new number i think i might just phone it and talk to her for real as in a friendley convosation nothing to heavy as after all our personalitys have only just met. What do you think?

[vashti]

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Originally Posted by Steven715

What do you mean i whatevor it is i am not i realey do want to meet her and even have a relationship with her?

I am sorry; I don't know what you are trying to say here.

[Steven715]

Sorry my grammer is not up to mutch iver I wantted to know what you ment by "yanking her chain." i have sort of worked it out what you are tying to say i think you may mean Messing her about whitch i am not i text every time she texts me and so on the reason i have not called her is because she first said to me and it still stands that she is a nerves talker on the phone nd dont talk mutch. I can realate to this as i am the same but i am willing to make an effot on this as like i said this relationship is important to me because i am growing to like her as we shere the same genneral idears! The trouble with me is it all gets worked up in my head and unable to talk about it to any one at home or a friend and it makes me think the worst and that is it, it upsets me if you follow what i am "trying" to say

Just to give you a little update i was talking to some one at work and thay think that she would not have given me her picture if she is not intrested in me. Whitch has made me no end. But what i would like todo is ring her as soon as i get her new number if she gives it to me i realey am hoping that she will come online later and that will make me i hope this has cleard things up for you i am sorry about my treiable spelling and everything elce it dont help when i am worrying about some thing like this. But i will say thank you for your advice so far and thanks for being patient with me i know i must seem a right pain in the butt and needs a life or some thing. once againg thanks steve

[vashti]

If she gave you her picture, I guess she must like you at least a little. HOwever, until she agrees that she will stop talking to other boys, there is nothing wrong with her doing so.

[Steven715]

Hold on i dont think she is i have no eveidance on this i just said why would she put the same picture on her yahoo personals profile that is all! sorry if i was not clear enouth i dont know what you think on this?

[vashti]

Maybe she just likes that picture of herself...

[Steven715]

oh what do you mean? that dont sound good

[vashti]

Steven, I don't think we are understanding each other. She sent you a picture of herself that she likes. She posted the same picture on her profile because she likes that picture of herself. Am I right? If so, what is the problem?

[Steven715]

oh right i see sorry lol well i sopose that is fair enouth trouble with me is i think i may take it to sireiosly (Spelling?) just have to see what happens i sopose

[Gigabitch]

Steven, you have to try to live in the real world a little more. This girl is on a dating site. Dating is all about numbers- meet a lot of people and see who you click with.

I think you're expecting her to act like you're "the one" before she's even met you.

Don't blow it by freaking out. Be cool.

[Steven715]

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Steven, you have to try to live in the real world a little more. This girl is on a dating site. Dating is all about numbers- meet a lot of people and see who you click with.

I think you're expecting her to act like you're "the one" before she's even met you.

Don't blow it by freaking out. Be cool.

Yeah i sopose you are right i am just so fed up of not meeting people and being on my own all the time it has started to stress me out before i sort of met her. I sopose i deserve this in sum ways! must of had a bad past life. Any way i think that it has all gone down the pan any way looks like i am on the old dusty shelf again as sad as i am to say this. I dont know love or any thing near never seems to work out with me and like i said it is stressing me out just being on my own with no partner. I feel like just giving the whole thing up as it seems that i have that part of th brain missing so there is no point any more Thanks for all your times any way but it looks like it is all over now with me and her! was nice of her to tell me thow NOT

[partygirljessic]

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Originally Posted by Steven715

Hello all agane i have cind of met some one on a internet dating website we have exchanged phone numbers but only txt each other am planning on phoning her maybe tonight or later this week. The trouble is i have only ever been out with one girl and that was 4 years ago i am 22 and she is 20 comming up 21 so any advice would be great please. thanks for looking

i think you're just looking at the wrong dating site! you're young and you don't need to be stuck with just one girl. you need to expand your dating horizon, like find a site where the girls are willing to meet up with you for a date. find me and my girls at webdatedotcom. wink wink!

[Steven715]

Well as things turn out it looks like i got it wrong and every this is back to how it was so i am now a happy bunny! And i dont intend on dating 2 girls at a time i would not like it so there for i will not do it to them!