What exactly is he after?

[wildadrenaline]

let's have a open talk here yea. known this guy for less than a week & we had sex. at first, he kept talking about sex & i know he want it. i refused but for don't know for what reason, i gave in. what e hell. initially, he gave me a heck care attitude. if i don't sms him, he won't find me. this kinda attitude carried on even after we had sex. then, i decided to give up on him. i didn't contact him for 2 days. to my surprise, he sms me. we went out. this time round, i feel different. there's a change in his attitude. he treat me nicer. the way he talk to me is no longer demanding like before.
he asked me to be his gf but i rejected cos i felt that he's not serious.
all this while, he'll buy me simple things like sweets & cookies that i mentioned once that i like. there's once when i was sick, he even brought me medicine.
Sex, he got it. i really don't know what's he's after. if sex is just what he want, i felt that he don't have to treat me nice after he got what he want. people always say that guys like "hard to get gals", is that true? what sld i do now? stop contacting him & play hard to get? but i'm scared, he'll just heck care when i don't contact him.. people, pls help.

[kai]

According to me He likes you now . First he doesn't as you said he only talked abt sex . He may found himself guilty for this kinda of attitude so he changed your attitude towards you . Give him more time and see if his attitude remains the same . If it remains same he likes you for sure

[dreamer101]

[edit] just read your older posts. so this is GUY A and you have cheated on your bf. Not the sorta person i would want to give advice to. but if he is in it for the sex, then you are in it for the money right?

[Hyper_Techno]

Nu comments. x_X

[wildadrenaline]

for everyone's info, its not for money. if it is, i wouldn't care whether he's serious not.

[blauw]

Drop em.
If a person would talk to me a lot about sex ... I'd have the same reaction that he's only in it for the sex...
No doubt u can have better guys!

[pinkpuca84]

yea...i totally agree with dreamer01, i read her posts too...haha...so this is the guy that u cheated with from ur nice bf, eh? but lemme tell u what...
i think he's after the game. he's only nice to u when u ignore him (by giving u cookies and stuff), and when u give in after the cookies, he will ignore u once again....mmm...as for me...i wouldnt wanna be the fish...u see what i mean? well...mmm...but if u want those free sweets and cookies, then it's up to u, maybe playing hard to get is a good idea....but personally, easier option is i just pick those junks from the supermarket nearby...very cheap i think...like few bucks per packet...

yes yes...ofcourse u're not in it for the money...i believe that *wink*

[vashti]

It is cheaper to get sex by buying a girl cookies and candy than it is to hire a prostitute.

[Gigabitch]

I understand that some developmentally disabled girls will do it for a Hershey bar.

What exactly is he after? What, is this a mystery? You've got to be, like, the easiest lay I've ever heard of. I hope this isn't a surprise to you: some men like to have sex every day. I think what he's after is your poon. Today, tomorrow and next week.

Probably not next year, though.

[wildadrenaline]

guess everyone just focus on sex yea. that's not e point. & its not just cookies & sweets. no gals will be so stupid for goodness sake. when i said he bought those stuff, what i tryin to say is that he's doin a role as a bf which my ex bf has nv done so. thats why i don't know what's he's after. sex, like i said, he got it. why e need to shower me with care when im sick.

[pinkpuca84]

so....u wanna hear that he's after ur love, rite?