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26-05-06, 09:12 AM
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| | | A little poll.... A thread further down gave me the idea to ask this question as it is pretty clear everyone has different opinions on this.
The question below is based on on a situation where the other person is not OK with a no-strings relationship and would not want to share you with anybody else!
So here is the question...
"when does it become wrong to continue dating other people?"
A - After the first date if you are going to see each other again.
B - After the second date if you are going to see each other again.
C - After the third date if you are going to see each other again.
D - After having sex with one another.
E - Not until it has been formally talked about.
F - When your married.
G - When you move in together.
H - Never.
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26-05-06, 09:19 AM
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| | | "when does it become wrong to continue dating other people?"
D - After having sex with one another.
E - Not until it has been formally talked about.
I would say these two for me. Unless the sex was just sex. But if the sex was after a few really good dates then I would think it would be wrong to date other people. | | 
26-05-06, 09:24 AM
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| | | Agree totally.
Perhaps I should clarify that when I said after having sex with one another....I do not mean a simple one night knee trembler!
I mean sex after a few dates or whatever. | | 
26-05-06, 09:37 AM
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| | | ok I have more to add haha Honestly, I would probably say after the 2nd date as well, but that is just an internal decision I would make if I was feeling it. I wouldn't ask the other person to do the same just yet but I wouldn't date anyone else if I was interested. | | 
26-05-06, 09:42 AM
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| | | I agree with that as well!
If I saw someone once and liked them....and then saw them a second time and still liked them.....I think I would want to put all my efforts into progressing things with them rather than carrying on seeing other people. | | 
26-05-06, 09:43 AM
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| | Doesnt this forum have poll support?  | | 
26-05-06, 09:46 AM
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| | | I looked but couldn't find it!.....anyway, stop ducking the question and answer it! lol :-) | | 
26-05-06, 10:34 AM
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| | | Most Defo After The 1st Date! If U Choose 2 See That Person Again Then U Shouldnt C Other Ppl Am New Here N Dnt Have A Clue How 2 Wrk This Help | | 
26-05-06, 11:08 AM
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26-05-06, 11:30 AM
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| | I'm staying out of this one... 
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26-05-06, 11:43 PM
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Originally Posted by vashti You seem like a really nice girl who is not an argumentative and unpleasant know-it-all in the slightest  | | 
26-05-06, 11:53 PM
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Originally Posted by google3000 You seem like a really nice girl who is not an argumentative and unpleasant know-it-all in the slightest  All this attention is giving me the impression you are smitten with me, google, and is making me blush. 
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| | | My answer is E-and-a-half.
If I were dating Google, I would go on at least three dates, have sex with him, then jerk him around and say it was because I didn't want to ruin the freindship. | | 
27-05-06, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted by vashti All this attention is giving me the impression you are smitten with me, google, and is making me blush.  My secret is out
But I know you feel the same about me....so its all good  | | 
28-05-06, 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted by google3000 My secret is out
But I know you feel the same about me....so its all good  whoa...!!  | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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