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Im stuck, and I need help..
I dont know what to do..

Two girls, one I have no love feelings for, but she is a great friend.
The other, I love deeply, but I dont think she feels the same way...or at least im not sure.

The girl I dont have feelings for, but is a great friend likes me...a lot. She wants to do some "things" with me..and it would probably be great experience. (Ive never done anything before. Not even a kiss.)
The problem is, id feel like I was cheating on the girl that I "love", even tho we arent anywhere near getting hooked up. Or maybe I just feel like its wrong. Or heck, maybe im just nervous.

I just dont know what to do.

Should I go for my friend and get experience, and please her?
..Or should I keep going for the one I love?
..Or..both? Would that even work?

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Love is a two way street. You can't make someone love you. But I will seriously be dsiturbed if you went for your friend simply because she wanted to do things with you.

You are not cheating on anyone because you are not with anyone

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Should I go for my friend and get experience, and please her?
..Or should I keep going for the one I love?
..Or..both? Would that even work?

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Alright...I said no to my friend.

There was something that kept telling me that it was wrong...I have no feelings for her, which means that it was lust that kept the thought going.

I dont want to waste a moment like that just because I know I could...im glad im not a mindless sex machine, or I probably would have gone through with it...

Thanks everyone for the support, I think I made the right decision.
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