love =]

[lovenoob]

theirs a girl in a grade younger then me, shes the most popular girl in her grade, and the hottest..

me- im a grade older then her, and she *used* to think i was weird ( im not. im probly like the 3rd or 4th popularist person in my grade.) i dont know why she did i must of done something the first time i talked to her she didnt like or something.

what happend - she's a really big bitch- she looks and acts like a barbie. and she knows it because she is one, she thinks shes the best in the world. and so shefeels she has the right to treat people like trash ..well people got fed up with her ( all the girls ) so they all hate her now, and so she's come to me cuase she's got no friends, and ive fallen in love with her =[. she's jjust been really nice to me and stuff lately and ii love it. but im almost positive she doesnt like me..she flirts with other guys and actually wants another boy to come over right now..anyways i asked her if she wanted to hang out this summer and she said yyah. so i guess thats good. i kinda want some advice since you no the backround now..what can i do to get her love? steps or anything would be good..

o ya shes got a bf too but he's really pissed at her along with everyone else but me =].

[Ellynn]

Honestly, you can't force her to love you...or even like you like that...

But, it sounds to me since she has no friends now.....she is taking whatever she can get... Not trying to put you down, but this girl seems like shes just using you for now for friendship and attention....until something better comes along. I mean she wants to date other guys! That alone should be a sign that shes not interested in you romantically. She just likes the attention you are giving her right now....because NO one else will give it to her.. Plus, you even said shes bitchy... Why the hell would you want to deal with something like that?? OH yeah thats right...she looks like a barbie doll....thats why... *sighs*

But she has a bf.....

Plus even if her bf is pissed at her, shes still in a relationship until he ends things with her...

I know you hope she will change her mind.....but chances are with a girl like her.....if you throw yourself at her and be at her beck and call......shes gonna walk all over you and then dump you like last weeks garbage... Girls like that usually have more respect for guys who have some backbone.....and even treat them kinda crappy....

Hey, I might be wrong, but just giving you a reality check here....

[lovenoob]

ive tried being a dick to her,thats why she thought i was weird in the first place probably..ive ben nice to her lately jsut joking around with her n stuff, making her knkow shes pretty and shes been nicer then she has befor. i dont think she wants a dick i think she doesnt even like her bf shes just not gonna break it off cuase its all shes got and she jsut wants to call him hers.

i think theyre gonnna be threw soon tho, cuase she was at the pool and her bf and a girl came up to her trying to be nice and she wouldnt talk, so they offerd to walk her home and he didnt talk to her the whole way home..he only walked her home so he could be with the other girl and walk her home..so i think theye gonna be over soon. ill keep the world updated =]

[flurint]

popular huh......here the real answer to popular is not to be....not to show off...not to prove to every one i'm the best...and that the key to being popular..well i don't consider my self as popular but every one thinks that lol..not trying to sound up my self.

She may be mean to every one but all you need is her to be reall nice to you. Hmm sound like this is high school stuff?..