Should I give her a gift ?

[GigaloDJ]

Just listen to me. OK? My advice is usually 100% correct. DO NOT try to find ways around it. DO NOT try to justify your own opinions.

I know. You actually BELIEVE your opinions. You think they are FACTS! But, they are not...

I have indeed used your "advice" before. It had failed. IT TOOK ME YEARS. But now i know the way.

From now on, if anyone doesn't like my advice, i'm sorry, but it IS true.
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The ONLY gift you should give her at this point in time is a CARD.
Let me know how it goes.

- GDJ

[jane]

your advice is usually 100% correct? ok.. let ME ask you something...

Is it possiable that even you... Doc. G can be competley wrong? I am not going o pull the " age " rank with you.. I am just going to tell you that guess what .... your f'in worng this time. Sometimes women, and believe me when I say this.... HATE GAMES!!!
I should know.

[jane]

ps.. unlike you G I don't have to justify my opinions with anyone!
If you can't handle anyone elses opnion but yours?? Why are you on this forum?

[LightOn]

Whatever works...no sence wearing a mask. This comment is directed to absolutely no single person in general, but everybody who takes the time to read it.

[GigaloDJ]

Quote:

Originally posted by jane
Sometimes women, and believe me when I say this.... HATE GAMES!!!
I should know.

LOL. It's no game. Would you like it if a guy brought you flowers on a first date??

ahhhhh, woman.

"Asking a woman about dating advice is like asking Osama Bin Laden the locations of all his terrorist training camps." - ANTI-DUMP

[LightOn]

we was not talking about a first date. end of story.........NEXT!!!!!

[MVPlaya]

Quote:

Originally posted by leight69
If you were her, what would your read on this be?

"Awwww! What a sweet friend."

Sorry dude, sounds like you got LJBF'd (Lets Just Be Friends), you've been on a couple dates and all you've had is a hug and a kiss on the cheek? And now you want to get her a present? Buddy, if you want to get her, you have to be a challenge. Otherwise, you're like every guy who came before you. Now, the mug thing is nice, I'm sure I'd give a platonic friend a get well gift too... but not a chick I'm trying to date. There's a lot of stupid sayings out there when it comes to dating and one is:
"A gift is the way to a woman's heart." Its BS... don't believe it. If you have a strong relationship a gift can make an impact, but if you're in the Friends Lane its not going to work any miracles.

Also, what do you mean:
"I think she is interested in me. I think it just a matter of it needs to be 'officially declared.'"
Her interest in you doesn't need to be sh!t. Women flirt very subtly, if she's interested you have to show that you can pick up on the clues and make a move. What are you waiting for, an engraved invitation? It sounds to me like you just want a hug so that you can ball up and do the job, instead, don't worry about official or not, just make your move, she'll either reciprocate or not and that's that. Just make sure you don't set yourself up for any heartbreak. Hope you can find the directions to get out of Friends Lane.