here we go again...help!! - Love Forum

soconfused · #1 (**permalink**) 08-02-04, 10:58 AM

to try and make a long story as short as possible....

ive been broken up with my girlfriend of two years for a little over a month now. it was a terrible ordeal and im glad its over. she had been lying and going behind my back and bla bla...you get the point. anyways there is this other girl i know that i have always had a little thing for ever since i have known her. we had a little thing about 3 years ago for one summer but it never progressed into anything. so i talked to her online and come to find out she just ended a long relationship as well. i ate at the restaurant she works at today and saw her. i kind of avoided eye contact with her when she would walk by and i think she did too. there has always been a weird thing between us. but when i was leaving she says goodbye to me. so i say bye too and start to leave ahead of my mom, who i was with. so my mom talks to her a little after i was gone (they know each other already). now my mom is saying how she was blushing a lot after she told me goodbye, and that she thinks she likes me and i should call her and all this stuff. basically im asking for some advice, am i just being a wuss for not calling because im a little intimidated by her, or maybe i am a little scared that she does not feel the same way? i just dont know, but i am starting to develop a crush on her i know that. what to do?

soconfused · #2 (**permalink**) 08-02-04, 11:01 AM

ok maybe i should have read that "hey all you wussy guys" thread before i posted my topic.

sfalexi · #3 (**permalink**) 08-02-04, 01:41 PM

Very simple. Ask her out.

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or maybe i am a little scared that she does not feel the same way?

Underneath, isn't that the reason that ALL people refrain from asking someone else out? As Nike used to say, "Just do it."

Alexi

squirrley · #4 (**permalink**) 08-02-04, 06:50 PM

ALex is right-ASK HER OUT!!!!!!
According to mom she blushed, it's a good sign man....

CALL HER

soconfused · #5 (**permalink**) 09-02-04, 12:19 AM

is it just me or do you find those first few weeks or months getting to know a new interest, wondering whats to come, wondering what they think, being absolutely floored to see them and all that crazy stuff just about one of the best things there is in life?

IceQueen · #6 (**permalink**) 09-02-04, 03:40 AM

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is it just me or do you find those first few weeks or months getting to know a new interest, wondering whats to come, wondering what they think, being absolutely floored to see them and all that crazy stuff just about one of the best things there is in life?

Hehe.

I still feel that way three years later.

Soconfused, remember that if you don't ask, the answer is always "No." So call her. Do you even have her phone number?

soconfused · #7 (**permalink**) 09-02-04, 03:47 AM

yeah i have her number from a long long time ago...im going to suck it up and call her tonight

IceQueen · #8 (**permalink**) 09-02-04, 03:52 AM

You go boy!

soconfused · #9 (**permalink**) 09-02-04, 09:09 AM

well...i talked with her

basically she says she isnt really looking for any kind of date right now because of her recent break up with her boyfriend and the fact that her and my ex used to be good friends. she says she doesnt want to think about that stuff right now. i told her thats completely understandable, although i am pretty disappointed.

jane · #10 (**permalink**) 09-02-04, 09:11 AM

sorry to hear that . but its early in the break up.. I wouldnt give up .. just put in on the back burner.

IceQueen · #11 (**permalink**) 09-02-04, 09:55 AM

It's ok. At least we know it's not personal.