What's with all you girls and ladies out there, 1 min you want us next min u change ?

[anhmaimaiyeuvn]

Yah... most of the postings I've read, all the same problems kept resonating.

One minute you girls act so nice to us, the minute when we respond, you girls totally change your mind, ie: don't want to talk as much or absentee.

How did we scare you girls? Just because we say we like you or love you?

Jeezes Moley! We just want to be with you gals... we want you, don't you want us?

So can you girls please tell me why is so different?

[Freeway3137]

Good Question(s)!

[soybeanboy]

Yeah, that just happened recently with me, haha.

So confusing...they only want what they cannot have, yet when they can have it, they dont want it anymore .

[Illusional]

have you ever taken a girl out to eat?? they look at the entire menu and change their mind atleast 20 times. and there is shopping, something that i absolutely hate hate hate doing with a female.

raverboy

[Venacava]

Some girls are like that. I know when I was younger I was definitely like that, whenever someone got too close I would run - even though I had acted like I wanted it. But now being a bit older I find that annoying, I don't run anymore. If I want something I work for it, I'm not indecisive and I like being loved.
Don't know about anyone else.

[thinker]

Here's the deal guys... I think (now don't throw your tomatoes) that I have come to understand women, well at least more than the average schmoe... recent relationships and just watching and learning have let me in on some little insights into the complex infrastructure known as the female mind... indluge me if you will

First off, I suppose it is fair to let the ladies know that you drive us crazy. You really do; exactly what the thread says, changing your mind every 10 minutes and what not.

Now, fellas... we being logical, rational beings (not that you gals are not, just men are more programmed towards that kind of junk) we feel that something is wrong with the situation that is preventing the woman from making a decision, right? Because that's how it would be for us... find the problem and fix it. Weeeeeeelllllll... if you dont know this by now, women are NOT simple like we are The big secret is... (drumroll please) that women don't let us know what they want because they honestly dont know themselves! And if they THINK they do, they will change their mind the next day... Womens' minds are very emotionally-geared, and will easily act on whims of fancy and passion, often losing sight of any greater purpose (and dont be offended ladies, we LOVE this But... just dont take it personally guys when she seems to smother you for weeks then suddenly is busy doing laundry every night, or if she is dropping some definite signals then ignores you completely... she is not trying to drive you crazy, she is just figuring out what is going on for herself!

So, ladies, please just tell us what is going on! We are more clueless than you sometimes... any suggestions would help

[skye.m]

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Originally Posted by anhmaimaiyeuvn

How did we scare you girls? Just because we say we like you or love you?

I always thought of it as the other way round... that if I told a guy I loved him, he'd run a mile!! Is this not the case??
I personally can't stand it when people (guys or girls) play games. The way I see it, if you like someone, tell them and go for it. None of this teasing business. I think girls can and do get confused and change their minds about what they want... but can't guys do this also?

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Originally Posted by thinker

we being logical, rational beings (not that you gals are not

They're not logical rational beings. Neither are you. I am.

[vashti]

I am a logical, rational woman, and speaking for at least SOME women, the reason they are into you one minute and repulsed by you the next usually has something to do with something idiotic a man says.

Can you believe that I was able to figure that out all by myself?

[TAVS]

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Originally Posted by vashti

I am a logical, rational woman, and speaking for at least SOME women, the reason they are into you one minute and repulsed by you the next usually has something to do with something idiotic a man says.

Can you believe that I was able to figure that out all by myself?

I don't believe a lot of your post actually.

[vashti]

Of course you don't...

Hey TAVS, how do you like being mod here? Is it a lot of work?

[TAVS]

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Originally Posted by vashti

Of course you don't...

Hey TAVS, how do you like being mod here? Is it a lot of work?

Sure; why not. It's something to do. I love stomping out Spam. Zarathu reports it and I crush it. Well I beat him to it sometimes.

Only bad thing Is I keep hitting Edit instead of Quote when I try and reply to someone's post. It sucks.

[thinker]

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Originally Posted by vashti

I am a logical, rational woman, and speaking for at least SOME women, the reason they are into you one minute and repulsed by you the next usually has something to do with something idiotic a man says.

Can you believe that I was able to figure that out all by myself?

Ok, sometimes we DO ruin things with our idiot mouths......

But you have to admit, sometimes you gals drag us around for a while and then disappear; whether this is being hard to get or just second guessing yourself, it is EXTREMELY annoying to us... We men on the other hand, are a bit more systematic about it; we like you, we let you know we like you (eventually), we hang around you a lot, and see where things go from there. Women tend to do the rollercoaster; i.e. I like this guy, so I will smother him with my presence and emails and phone calls about nothing until 3 am for 2 weeks, then have no contact whatsoever for a while, then give a casual nod when I see him like nothing happened hehe... which we as men do not understand because it is not how we work...

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Originally Posted by TAVS

Sure; why not. It's something to do. I love stomping out Spam. Zarathu reports it and I crush it. Well I beat him to it sometimes.

Only bad thing Is I keep hitting Edit instead of Quote when I try and reply to someone's post. It sucks.

Am I the only one that files all of the reports?

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And as for

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Originally Posted by vashti

I am a logical, rational woman

There is no such thing as a logical and rational woman.

[TAVS]

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Originally Posted by Zarathu

Am I the only one that files all of the reports?

I use to Zarathu. I think you and I are just so quick nobody else has a chance.