I need help.

[eLiTe sKiLLz]

so a few yrs ago. I went out with this girl. Basically I was an idiot thru the whole thing. I dumped her repeatedly and then whenever id want id ask her out an dshe would say yes. I also went out with her bestfriend for awhile. She wrote me an email saying how much she loved me and "never forget me". and she also wrote a 3 page note basically talking about the same stuff. So after I dumped her bestfriend for the 1st time (same girl as earlier,went out with her more then once)..I asked her out. Of course she said yes. I pulled the same crap again and dumped her. And then she eventually just said no. But I wanted her back so bad. I honestly think deep down inside I loved her. I was just to big of a fool to see that. I tried everything to get her back. All failed. So we went our seperate ways. Now present day 2006. She still goes to my school but I dont really see her that much. But when I did idk..I instantly became attracted to to her again. She just broke up with her boyfriend. Im starting to like her again obviously. How should I approach the situation? I mean it will be hard to just start talking to her when I really havent in awhile. I dont want to say "I like you, blah blah" because it might just scare her away. I talked to one of my friends about this and they said, personally if I were her I wouldnt care that you still liked me. I want to start talking to her again but obviously its not as easy as it looks. What should I do? I regret pulling some of the stuff off that I did when I was younger. Please help.

She's being responsible and having some self-respect, because honestly you sound like an asshole to me. If you get her back with your elite skillz, you'd probably do nothing but dump her again.

Why, exactly, did you dump them anyway?

[eLiTe sKiLLz]

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Originally Posted by Zarathu

She's being responsible and having some self-respect, because honestly you sound like an asshole to me. If you get her back with your elite skillz, you'd probably do nothing but dump her again.

Why, exactly, did you dump them anyway?

it was along time ago. I highly doubt she'll remember/care about back then today. I mean people make mistakes. IDK why I did it. I just want some advice on where to start back at. Like to get us talking again.

[Yankeesfan]

sounds like a similar story to mine. Accept with all the dumping. Ill post mine in a bit. But I think you should just ease in slowly and just try to ignore the past

Use attraction-sparkers. I personally would just back off. You dumped her and now you're going to hurt her again because of your emotional instability.

[Ellynn]

Yeah, do this girl a favor and let her go. You dumped her over and over again and then dumped her for her best friend! If I were her, I wouldn't want anything more to do with you.

I think its because you have no one else right now, that you are trying to pursue her. If you really think she will give you another shot, then you can always give it a try. But, this time around, do the right thing and treat her good.

[Frasbee]

You're a dick.

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

You're a dick.

^_^

I would've lost rep for that.

[Illusional]

dammit, by the time i got to this thread, someone already busted shit about the "elite skills".

well you want my advice on her to get her back?? bottom line is that you're living in the past. you remember all the good times that you have, and the times that you were a dick doesn't sink into your thick skull. you say that you can't move on.. but it's because you don't want to. you probabaly actually like being a dick to her because of the feeling that she'll still keep returning no matter how back it gets. get over her already because you're wasting your time.

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