Im confused.

[Yankeesfan]

Im 16. I went out with this girl a few years back. We both really liked eachother. But once we broke up we kinda did what most gfs/bfs do. Not become friends and just kinda ignore eachother. So I found out yesterday she broke up with her boyfriend. Ive had a crush on her for along time. I kinda want to start talking to her again. Let her know how I feel. But how can I? I dont want to sound like a creep and say "Ive liked you for along time.". I think calling her would be EXTREMELY weird and arkward. I guess they invented myspace for a reason. But I want something that could help me get back with her.

Suggestions? Thoughts?

anythings appreciated.

Why are you confused?

[Yankeesfan]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zarathu

Why are you confused?

because I dont know what to do. I really thought she was the one to. I guess I just blew it. Now im listening to these love songs thinking about her. I really want another chance with her. I just dont know where to begin.

[Ellynn]

Your still young, so I doubt its love. Its just one of those crushes that feel like love.

If you really want to try to get back into her life, I would just drop her a message on myspace just saying hi and ask her how shes doing. Keep it simple. Don't go into how you feel about her or anything like that. (That would sound creepy and make her think your a stalker.) Just see how if she responds to your message. If she ignores you, then you should take that as a hint. If she does respond to you, then you can start making small talk. Work on at least being friends with her and then possibly go from there. Just take it slow.

Keep in mind, she just broke up with her ex, and anything right now with anyone else would probably be a rebound. You don't wanna be part of that.

[Yankeesfan]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ellynn

Your still young, so I doubt its love. Its just one of those crushes that feel like love.

If you really want to try to get back into her life, I would just drop her a message on myspace just saying hi and ask her how shes doing. Keep it simple. Don't go into how you feel about her or anything like that. (That would sound creepy and make her think your a stalker.) Just see how if she responds to your message. If she ignores you, then you should take that as a hint. If she does respond to you, then you can start making small talk. Work on at least being friends with her and then possibly go from there. Just take it slow.

Keep in mind, she just broke up with her ex, and anything right now with anyone else would probably be a rebound. You don't wanna be part of that.

exactly. I dont wanna sound creepy. I just asked how her summer was going. Thanks for the advice. Hopefully ill get a response.