I need help...

[toowens]

Okay Im Cameron and im 16 years old. Me and this girl Yolanda (Yolie) have liked each other for over a year. It all started when her sister was living at my house cause her dad was in jail and Yolie came to visit for about 3 days. She was over here and me and her hung out the whole time and somehow were always touching each other. I rarely get to see her even though my dad and her dad are best friends. We have liked each other and stuff and there would be no problems if she didnt live with her grandma. Her grandma is really strict. Well the first time awhile ago when i was talking to her on her cell her grandma took her phone away cause she doesnt want her talking to guys. She is 15 she needs to talk to guys. Well so i went over there on july 15th cause it was her dads b-day and we all hung out and stuff. i wanted some alone time to talk to her but her grandma wouldnt even let us be alone so her grandma made her dad stay with us. Well I got her alone for like 20 seconds and asked her to call me sometimes cause she isnt allowed to get phone calls from guys. She said she could but she never has so far. I know she likes me and stuf cause she even told my dad she does. Now everyone else I asked said that i got to let her go and that i shouldnt go against her grandma. But the thing is i have tried to. Every time I think that im over her she somehow comes over here with her dad or I go over there. I really dont want to get over her cause I have never felt this way about anyone in my life. Now I have her house number and stuff but if I call she will get in trouble. I honestly dont know what to do. I just cant get her out of my head. No matter what i do i always seem to start thinking about her. Can somebody please help me? Please dont just ignore this..

[Roosterfosho]

Send her a text message?

[toowens]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Roosterfosho

Send her a text message?

Her grandma took her cell phone away.

[Roosterfosho]

oh, talk to her online?

[toowens]

I would but they dont have the internet at there house. Of course she had it on her cell though.

[Roosterfosho]

wow this is really messed up for you.
Try sending her a letter, but mark it as something from here dad?
or just try sending her a letter

[toowens]

I could but theres the chance of her grandma opening. I mean her grandma is that strict. I dont know why. And her dad lives there too. He just got out of jail and is trying to move out of there.

[Roosterfosho]

oh, jeeeez wait! i have an idea give the letter or note to one of her friends and then have her friend give it to her

[toowens]

See I dont know any of her friends but me and her sister who doesnt live with her have been friends for like 5 years. If I could somehow tell her about it then she could tell her sister. But I dont have the number.

[Roosterfosho]

hmmmmm
you have one tough situation you are in man, sorry I couldn't help

[toowens]

Its cool. Thanks for trying.

[vashti]

Why don't you try asking her grandma under what circumstances she will allow the girl to date you. Perhaps all you need is a chaperone. I realize that this is not ideal from your perspective, but it might be something, and granny is just looking out for this girl's best interests.

[toowens]

Yeah i know her grandma is just looking out for her. But I mean she's 15. How long is she planning on holding her down for. Plus I mean when i get a rare chance to go over there she tries her hardest to not let us hang out.

[vashti]

She is looking out for the girl's best interests. 15 year old girls can get pregnant, and granny knows this. She was once 15 too, you know. And trust me, 15 isn't all that old. Too big to be little, and too little to be big.

[toowens]

Yeah i think im just gonna have to have a "talk" with her grandma about us. Any suggestions or tips on what i should say?