Originally Posted by TheSab
i came here for help... i've only just started to date and i get people basicually saying i'm dumb.
You could've fooled me.
You came in here, asked us for advice, then completely ignored it.
As you can see, we were all right on the money.
But you were too stubborn to accept it.
Dude, some of us have been doin' this thing for a loooong time, we know what we're talkin' about.
If you look back to everybody's ealier posts, you'll see that there was more sincerity in the posts. But it seemed as if you were trying to prove us wrong, that you only wanted us to respond with what you wanted to hear.
Example 1.) If we told you what you wanted to hear...
The Sab: Should I?
Loveforum: Yes.
The Sab: Aw, she rejected me, you told me it would work, but it didn't...what went wrong??
Loveforum: No idea, looks like it's about time you wallow in your sorrow and slit your wrists.
Example 2.) If you listened to us...
The Sab: Should I?
Loveforum: No.
The Sab: I think you're right, no girl is worth changing my lifestyle simply to impress. I acknowledge your almighty wisdom, realize the error of my ways and am now a better person for it.
Example 3.) How it went...
The Sab: Should I?
Loveforum: No.
The Sab: Should I?
Loveforum: ...No.
The Sab: Should I?
Loveforum: No, you ****ing dumbass.
The Sab: Well I'm gonna anyway.
Loveforum: Well then you're dumb.
The Sab: Aw, she rejected me, what went wrong??
Loveforum: Told you so.
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Are you seein' it now?
Now granted we here at LF aren't always on agreement on how certain situations should be dealt, which is good, because there isn't a right or wrong way with dealing with these things.
But there are better and worse ways.
So when you see us pretty unanimous on certain advice, for your own sake, take it into serious consideration. After all, how can you expect us to take you seriously if you refuse to take any of the advice we give, the advice
you're asking for seriously?
We help because to some degree, albeit minor, we care. I have yet to see any of the Regs intentionally lead somebody astray.
Now stop acting like some poor victim, pull yourself together and go find a girl worth
your time.
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