Does he like me or not? Please help.

[model_it]

Yes, i will use the advice because i dont want to tell this guy that i like him and then find out he might not feel the same way about me, and then what might he think of me, he'll probably think: Why the hell does she like me if i have a girlfriend??

[Ellynn]

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Originally Posted by model_it

Yes, i will use the advice because i dont want to tell this guy that i like him and then find out he might not feel the same way about me, and then what might he think of me, he'll probably think: Why the hell does she like me if i have a girlfriend??

Yeah your really taking a pointless risk if hes already involved with someone. Probably best just to let it go and not say anything. I would also consider distancing myself from someone like him. This will probably make it easier to move on.

[model_it]

^ I understand the point your saying, and yes it seems like i should keep my distance from him but i just cant because i see him so often (every few days) i've asked him out to my formal and he said yes.
So even though i try really hard i cant help it, i see him so often, i dont what to do but it seems like i just have to try really hard to learn that i can just be his friend, nothing else.

Is there anything that anyone can suggest how to kind of get over a guy? I know that its a really hard thing to do but i know that i've got to get over him.
Thanks for the help

[vashti]

Staying away from someone you are attracted to is the best (and fastest) way to get over them.

[model_it]

^ Yeah, that is the best thing to do but what if you cant stay away from them, because i see him every few days anywhere i go unless i like stay at home 24/7.

Please help, is there another way i can try/will get over him???

Willpower.

[Ellynn]

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Originally Posted by model_it

^ Yeah, that is the best thing to do but what if you cant stay away from them, because i see him every few days anywhere i go unless i like stay at home 24/7.

Please help, is there another way i can try/will get over him???

Why? Do you live like really close to each other?

Trust me, there are ways to avoid someone.

[model_it]

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Originally Posted by Ellynn

Why? Do you live like really close to each other?

Trust me, there are ways to avoid someone.

Yeah, we do live really close to each other, about 5 houses away from each other.
Are there any other ways can i not really avoid him but try to get over him because between us its really hard to try to get over him when i see him so often so i have no idea what to do