errgh.. - Love Forum

lovenoob · #1 (**permalink**) 29-07-06, 10:39 AM

3 years ago i was in a relation with agirl and we loved each other,but we kept it between us, for reason like people bitching and stuff and trying to split us up, cause our friends were to fond of each other..and then i cheated on her, then eventually told her what was going on and i couldnt be with her anymore. but realized i loved her later on..but she wouldnt talk to me..well then we started talking again and ive had days were i would try to get her to like me again..one time she was mad with me so i bought her $150 of roses, andleft them on ehr front door onvalentines day in the morning. with a teddy bear. she said it was the sweetest thing any1 has ever done for her, and she was sad when she saw it at first cause she thought they were for her sister like always. well she liked some1 else at the time, so nothing became of it. and then i wrote her a song like a week ago,that alot of people have told me they liked (friends, and random people over the internet).but she has a bf..AGAIN!
so i was wondering..what i should do i really like her..and have been having dreams about her.. but shes in a relation..
i dont need any comments like o jsut let her be and shell come to you if its meant to be. or leave her relatinship alne, or oh she sounds like a bitch. i just want ideas of what you would think.

#2 (**permalink**) 29-07-06, 11:41 AM

Why the hell did you post this in two different forums? Get real.

thinker · #3 (**permalink**) 29-07-06, 12:48 PM

I will read and comment on this when some sort of effort is put in to make it coherent and fix the spelling/grammar/punctuation/syntax/sentence strtucture/unreadability errors. Who typed this, a 3 year old?

Ellynn · #4 (**permalink**) 29-07-06, 04:53 PM

I think that you had your chance 3 yrs ago and blew it. You cheated, and then realized the grass wasn't so green on the other side so tried to make it up by buying her flowers etc. She was touched, but obviously not enough to trust you again. That is probably why nothing became of it.

She has obviously moved on seeing as she has a bf now. So, you need to move on as well and learn not to repeat the same mistake again. Next time you get bored or fustrated with a relationship, maybe it would be best to talk things through or try to work things out rather then to cheat.
This should also make you realize that theres only so much that money can buy and you can't buy someone's trust and affection.

mahouyuki · #5 (**permalink**) 29-07-06, 09:38 PM

You never realise how much you care about something until it leaves you... If you really love her, you'll let her be happy with her bf, maybe the relationship wont work out well and they'll break up. If they do break up, be there for her, give her a shoulder to cry on etc...

To truly love is to find pleasure in the happiness of the person loved.

Frasbee · #6 (**permalink**) 30-07-06, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by mahouyuki

If they do break up, be there for her, give her a shoulder to cry on etc...

Yeah, and become her back up bitch.

#7 (**permalink**) 30-07-06, 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

Yeah, and become her back up bitch.

XD Exactly what I was thinking.

Frasbee · #8 (**permalink**) 30-07-06, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Zarathu

XD Exactly what I was thinking.

You're the siamese twin I never had.

anhmaimaiyeuvn · #9 (**permalink**) 30-07-06, 01:32 PM

Lovenoob,

I'm sorry to tell you this but here it is anyway to calm your mind.

Ellynn is absolutely right on this one.

Right now her heart is with her new found bf, and no longer with you.
Whatever you do, you will not convince her to come back to you.
Trying to be nice by buying her things will also not do.

Now, the best thing is just to be a friend (...and I'm not sure if she still wants your friendship, it's sad but that's how I feel of her).

Anyway, you got to move on buddy. Forget about her, she's no longer yours now.

Good-luck!