What the f*ck is wrong with me

[kai]

Ok guys and galz I need help from you all . I've a gf and she loves me a lotttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt . She loves me more than anything . I also love her a lotttttttt

But the problem is whenever she talks to any other guy I feel like f*cking jealous . I dunno why . Then I get angry on myself bcoz of my behaviour


Plzzzzz tell me what to do

It's okay, it's a normal thing. What I learned from the others around here, specifically, is that everyone gets jealous, it's just a matter of how well you handle it. Does she know you get extremely jealous?

[Frasbee]

The fact that you're concerned about your behavior means you're already a step closer than most with your problem to fixing the issue before it becomes a major one.

[Gigabitch]

You're insecure. it's notttt about her or how much you love/ trust her.

[Freeway3137]

yea I hate that shit... When I was with my ex, she'd ALWAYS bitch at me for gettin jealous, but then she would get jealous on me? I did not get that, and I told her that and she was just to stuck up about it.

Call me the thread jacker, but don't let it get to serious otherwise you'll end up broken up. It's normal to have those feelings though.

[Venacava]

I guess it is normal, plenty of people get that way. But that's more to do with you than it is to do with her. She has her own life and she is free to talk to whoever she wants to, which I am sure you're aware of.
Why do you get jealous? Figure that one out.
Because if you trust her then it's clearly got nothing to do with her being untrusting or whatever, this is all on you. Are you afraid that she will find someone better, or what? Figure out what the deal is and then go from there.

[angelic_rebel]

being jealous is normal. Maybe you are scared to loose her that's why you are soooo jealous. Just control it, coz some girls don't like it when guys are over reacting when it comes to jealousy, they might think you don't thrust them,girls.

[vashti]

I think jealousy stems from a feeling that one doesn't quite deserve the relationship they are in, and they fear losing it. I would work on making yourself feel more "worthy" by doing things you are proud of and make you feel more entitled. For example, academic achievement boosts self-esteem, donating some time to a worthy charity - you know, doing something positive with your life.

[Rob26]

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Originally Posted by vashti

I think jealousy stems from a feeling that one doesn't quite deserve the relationship they are in, and they fear losing it.

Bingo. Date someone you consider inferior to yourself and I bet you won't be jealous!

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Originally Posted by Rob26

Bingo. Date someone you consider inferior to yourself and I bet you won't be jealous!

No. I spent my time dating women I considered FAAAR beneath me, yet I was still jealous.

[Renu]

ill tell you wtf is wrong with you
YOU ARE SICK......
Shoot your self......
the dissease you have is worse than cancer , aids , h5n1
i am so sorry for you

[daiza]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Renu

ill tell you wtf is wrong with you
YOU ARE SICK......
Shoot your self......
the dissease you have is worse than cancer , aids , h5n1
i am so sorry for you

alow me....the dissease is worse than :

-brain tumor
-heart dissease
-parkinson
-obesity
-drug addiction
-sexual disorders
-colon cancer
-prostate cancer
-alcohol abuse
-anorexia
-erectile disfunction....


pls some one stops me.....

pls....))))

[Renu]

Forgot Inasanity

[kai]

Quote:

Originally Posted by daiza

alow me....the dissease is worse than :

-brain tumor
-heart dissease
-parkinson
-obesity
-drug addiction
-sexual disorders
-colon cancer
-prostate cancer
-alcohol abuse
-anorexia
-erectile disfunction....


pls some one stops me.....

pls....))))

lollllllllllll . I don't want to die


Thnx for ur replies . Now I've learnt to control myself

Again a big thnx to all

[Renu]

hey np !
.................