Help mEEeee!!! - Love Forum

AzN sNiPeR · #1 (**permalink**) 18-01-02, 02:47 PM

There's this girl I know at school. She's a softmore and I'm a freshman. But I think I'm older than her. I just know her since I see her.........but i don't have her in any of my classes. Is it ok for a freshman guy to go with a softmore girl? Some people told me as long the guy is older. If you agre, can u help me to get started. I have the confidence to talk to her, just dont know how to start.
thanx in advance
DLK

Brad · #2 (**permalink**) 19-01-02, 08:37 AM

Screw with the class distinctions and social clicks that are at your school.

Get to know her, or ask her on a date.

If you don't you will regret it and feel like a stupid moron.

Mainly because there is no reason why you should pass up a chance to meet someone new because they may become your closest friend.

joseph · #3 (**permalink**) 20-01-02, 01:11 AM

Hi DLK,

Go for it. Don't miss the train else you will regret for life.

btw, welcome to our forum, Brad.

AzN sNiPeR · #4 (**permalink**) 20-01-02, 02:45 PM

i know you're saying go for it.......but what should I start off with. I remember the last times i did it to two softmores, but I never talked to them again ever since..........

Brad · #5 (**permalink**) 22-01-02, 09:08 AM

If you don't think of people as objects, and instead as real people just like you, with emotions and stress, you can relate and feel more comfortable near a girl you like.

I've never dated, and not to say that I don't want a girlfriend, but rather, I'm a shy guy. But that's perfectly fine. Just be yourself and muster up your confidence.

Brad

#6 (**permalink**) 22-01-02, 04:31 PM

You know you should tell her what you feel so that you will not regret it someday that you didn't even give it a try to tell her!!! Nothing will lose from you!

joseph · #7 (**permalink**) 22-01-02, 06:24 PM

There's definitely no loss in giving a try. A try might bring you positive result else just treat it as an experience.

#8 (**permalink**) 22-01-02, 06:50 PM

I definitely agree joseph!!!! Just give it a try...Who knows, maybe....she has a feelin gfor you too!!!

AzN sNiPeR · #9 (**permalink**) 23-01-02, 03:07 PM

I thanx u guys for reposting this...........but you still didn't really answer my question. Guys, this Q is really for u...what is your way of talking to a girl you don't know...do u go like
Guy: Hey there hot mama!
Girl: Hi
Guy: Wanna go to bed with me?
Girl: Sure!

so ok...that will never work unless you're brad pitt or something...tell me what is your way....thanx u
please..........don't use this dialogue on girls...unless you want to be slapped.