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04-09-06, 06:30 PM
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| | | Cheating... What is cheating?what do u exactly feel when u are cheated on?
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04-09-06, 07:37 PM
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| | | What is cheating? I think ultimately if you've made a commitment to a person there are plenty of types of cheating. Physically or emotionally, however most people don't react so bad with emotional cheating.
In my opinion - cheating is when you're committed to someone and you physically do something with another person, whether it's just a kiss or it's sex. It's cheating. I can't speak for everyone though.
What do you feel? Betrayl, anger, sadness - plenty of things. It's not exactly the most wonderful feeling in the world, however raw it may be.
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05-09-06, 12:03 AM
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| | Yes, I agree. It is the breaking of a commitment you have made to someone else. I am really anal about this too  I consider anything past a friendly hug to be cheating; this includes kissing, romantic petting, flirting, or really just letting yourself be drawn in by another person. If it is clear that someone else is all goo-goo eyed over someone other than you, I would say you have good reason to be pissed. I hate cheaters... grrrr... | |
05-09-06, 12:26 AM
| | | | I don't know; I'm such a confused person.... I don't know what cheating is, because if I was with somebody while they had sex with another guy and everything, I don't really think it would matter considering I've only been with whores and that's kinda what they do.
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05-09-06, 11:20 AM
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| | | Cheating to me is not being loyal to the one you love. Obviously taking someones love for granted and thinking you could find another so you go with another person.
Usually i feel betrayed and just depressed for a certain period of time. It hurts but you can get over it eventually if you try. | |
05-09-06, 12:22 PM
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| | | Why do you ask...did you cheat?!
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05-09-06, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Zarathu 
Just kidding. I agree with thinker.
I don't. At least, not entirely.
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05-09-06, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by vashti I don't. At least, not entirely. OMFG!!! WTF?!?!?! PWNED BBQ!!!!????
Would the guru care to elaborate on her thought? I am always interested in new opinions and expanding my own
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05-09-06, 10:15 PM
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| | | I'm curious as to why you would ask how you feel when it comes to cheating?
I disagree that cheating can be labeled as giving someone a hug or flirting with them, etc..
Venacava had it right when she said your committed to someone and the "cheater"breaks that commitment by having any kind of emotional or physical relationship with someone else (excluding friendships). It would hurt me more if I found out that my BF had been having an emotional relationship rather than a sexual one for the mere factor it takes a lot more effort and obvious emotion to do so. Someone cheats because they aren't happy with the person they are with, and I'm sure you can imagine the feelings you would have if someone hurt you like that.
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05-09-06, 10:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Rosebud I disagree that cheating can be labeled as giving someone a hug or flirting with them, etc..
I agree with Rosebud's disagreeing.
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05-09-06, 10:30 PM
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| | | lol.. I think that's the first time we have agreed on something involving cheating Vash. Woo Hoo!!!
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05-09-06, 10:32 PM
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| | | Really? That's hard to believe.
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05-09-06, 10:41 PM
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| | | I know... But I think the one subject you and I always debate on is cheating..lol
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05-09-06, 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Rosebud Someone cheats because they aren't happy with the person they are with.
Well, if it makes you feel better, I disagree with this.
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05-09-06, 10:45 PM
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| | | Arghhh...I knew I should have kept my mouth shut...lol
Why would you think someone would cheat? (I'm almost afraid to ask)
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