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27-09-06, 05:47 AM
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| | | The ex you can't forget Mathias and I both have this- an ex we can't forget.
My story: Whirlwind romance 12 years ago, I broke up with him because I'm a fool but we stayed in touch, I was with my husband for almost 11 years, we got divorced, now I want my ex back.
I went to see him in California last month and we reconnected in a very physical way. Now we are e-mailing and talking on the phone, but not enough for my taste, and we're both pretty stumped about what to do with this whole California / New Mexico problem. Neither of us is planning to relocate.
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27-09-06, 06:04 AM
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| | | Could you guys just meet and live in Arizona?
I am joking, but I do see the problem tho. If neither one of you is willing to move, then, it may be better to just be long distance friends. You already have the communcation lines open, and seem to be on friendly ground already. I understand the feelings and all, but the friend deal may be your best bet, or just stop communicating which I doubt you would want to do. | |
27-09-06, 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Gigabitch  , now I want my ex back.
Which ex do you want back?...........ex-husband or ex-boyfriend?
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27-09-06, 06:15 AM
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Originally Posted by derm Which ex do you want back?........... or ex-boyfriend?
Bleh. Not the ex-husband. We are soooooooooo done.
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27-09-06, 07:28 AM
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27-09-06, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Zarathu You . If I could magically make you twice your age, you'd be in like Flynn. | |
27-09-06, 07:38 AM
| | | | You'd make me 32? But that would make you six years older.... That's so...not Christian! You're going to Hell. | |
27-09-06, 07:40 AM
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Originally Posted by tooxshort I was constantly sizing girls up ... pros and cons ... trying to figure out any possible problems that could surface in the future ... keep in mind, these go for girls I haven't even made a move to spark something with! This is what I did after watching my brother's and cousin's failed relationships at a young age.
I never ended up experimenting throughout school 'cause I knew it was hopeless.
Even now I still analyze the hell out of any girl I grow curious of.
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28-09-06, 03:33 AM
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| | | We all want what we can't have........human nature.
Chances are if ye got back togethor he would not live up to expectations and he'd be your ex-ex-boyfriend.
Stop thinking about him [if at all possible] will do your head in!
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28-09-06, 03:36 AM
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Originally Posted by derm We all want what we can't have........human nature.
Chances are if ye got back togethor he would not live up to expectations and he'd be your ex-ex-boyfriend.
Stop thinking about him [if at all possible] will do your head in! I choose to disregard your advice completely while acknowledging that it is good, solid advice.
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28-09-06, 04:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Gigabitch I choose to disregard your advice completely while acknowledging that it is good, solid advice.
I am going to pursue this.
LOL....lol.........Thought as much!
Fu*k it your single, throw caution to the wind.....enjoy yourself!
BUT pleeeeeese come back one day and tell me I was right. If he was such a suitable guy why did ye ever break up in the first place...... huh?
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28-09-06, 04:38 AM
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Originally Posted by derm
BUT pleeeeeese come back one day and tell me I was right. If he was such a suitable guy why did ye ever break up in the first place...... huh?
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28-09-06, 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Gigabitch I just wasn't ready. Whole different story.....
Hey go for it, Your old and wise enough. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
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