Help - Love Forum

Jaybee2k01 · #1 (**permalink**) 12-01-04, 03:01 AM

I know this girl. She's very nice and kind and beautiful and smart. I think I'm in love with her, and I'm not sure how to talk to her about my feelings. I call her up sometimes but I'm really shy. She doesn't seem to initiate contact with me, but I don't know if she knows my number. I don't see her at school anymore and I was just wondering how I could tell her how I feel about her.

IceQueen · #2 (**permalink**) 12-01-04, 03:14 AM

Once again. You don't talk to someone you are not dating about your feelings. You ask her out, then you date for a while, then you talk about feelings. There is no POINT talking about feelings if you're not asking her out. I mean, how do you expect her to react? Yeah, so you love me, NOW WHAT?

Innova · #3 (**permalink**) 12-01-04, 05:13 AM

Queen is right, just ask her out on a date and enjoy eachothers company, get to know eachother. If you talk about your feelings off the bat, its more then likely will scare her away. Just be cool and confident (but not cocky), women like that.

Jaybee2k01 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-01-04, 05:27 AM

Okay then. How do I go about asking her out?

IceQueen · #5 (**permalink**) 12-01-04, 07:19 AM

"Hey, name, would you like to go to a movie with me this Saturdday? Okay then, I'll pick you up at eight. Oh yeah, could you give me your phone number so I could contact you if plans change around?"

GigaloDJ · #6 (**permalink**) 12-01-04, 09:48 AM

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Originally posted by Jaybee2k01
I know this girl. She's very nice and kind and beautiful and smart. I think I'm in love with her, and I'm not sure how to talk to her about my feelings. I call her up sometimes but I'm really shy. She doesn't seem to initiate contact with me, but I don't know if she knows my number. I don't see her at school anymore and I was just wondering how I could tell her how I feel about her.

You love her and you haven't gone on a date yet?

What are you? A FVCKING RETARD?

apiman · #7 (**permalink**) 12-01-04, 11:03 AM

Gigalo, do we know how old Jaybee is? I'd like to know because I told the girl in my advice thread I loved her when I was in sixth grade.. and in sixth grade it's kinda hard to go out on dates with people. Of course, I was also a moron so maybe my situation doesn't count.

jane · #8 (**permalink**) 12-01-04, 11:16 AM

Gigalo likes to jump to conculsions..

Jaybee2k01 · #9 (**permalink**) 12-01-04, 01:06 PM

Okay... That doesn't make much sence Gigalo. Say the person didn't love me back. That would prevent me from going on a date with her. (That was hypothetical)

I'm 15 in case you wanted to know.

Danny_B · #10 (**permalink**) 13-01-04, 12:19 AM

I think you're confusing 'love' with 'crush'/'fancy'/'desire' or whatever... sure, your feelings for her may be more than a crush but I can't see it being love.

Gigalo is asking, how can you be in love with someone when you don't *actually* know her? Sure she may be pretty, smart, kind and all the other great things but surely that can only be your perception of her as you don't really know her...

Don't use the 'love' word so easily, it's a powerful word and you shouldn't give it out - plus it'll make girls run a million miles because when you say 'I love you' to someone you're really asking them if they love you, and most people just aren't ready for that at any early stage of a relationship.

Jaybee2k01 · #11 (**permalink**) 13-01-04, 05:28 AM

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Originally posted by Jaybee2k01
I think I'm in love with her,

I didn't really say that I was in love with her. I said I think I'm in love with her. I guess I don't really know what love is.

jane · #12 (**permalink**) 13-01-04, 07:11 AM

you know what .. give the kid a break to him its "love" he's 15! Have you all forgotton 15?

I would ask her out and this is why.. you really dont have anything to lose. IF you want something you should go after it. That is a huge lesson to learn at your age! Go get her.

jane · #13 (**permalink**) 13-01-04, 07:11 AM

it posted twice?

K3vMySt3r · #14 (**permalink**) 13-01-04, 07:54 AM

hey man... we've all been around that age...everyone has except you... so heres a bit of infortmation from me... really do you think you know what love is? really cuz i would love to hear it cuz i dont' know what it is and im' only 18...and i haven't even said I LOVE YOU to a girl yet...LOL...neway... look man u ask her out, only thing u might get is maybe a rejection, but get used to it, trust me you'll be rejected atleast once in your life, and you so pick up the experience... plus what are you really asking her out of? LUST? i'd say 50% of it is you want her out of LUST... but thats just me okay i'm out