How long? - Love Forum

Joemofo · #1 (**permalink**) 01-10-06, 06:00 AM

How long do you have to know a girl to tell them you like them or ask them if they like you?

Tiay · #2 (**permalink**) 01-10-06, 06:39 AM

as long as it takes you to be sure you like them?

vashti · #3 (**permalink**) 01-10-06, 07:14 AM

Perfectly answered.

Tiay · #4 (**permalink**) 01-10-06, 11:03 AM

thank you

or, I should add, if you're one of those people who agonises about everything and can't decide, then it's till you to start agonising and making posts over it.

Odd, when I first came here I naively imagined that this kind of question would be treated in a 'sex in the city-ish' kind of way and people would be like "it's a week, honey" and someone else would then say "oh you don't want them to think you're easy, wait at least ten days.." yada yada yada.. but .. no, unlike the script writers for that show, we actually use common sense here.

well.. most of the time

Joemofo · #5 (**permalink**) 01-10-06, 11:27 AM

I dont think she likes me beacuse we must of been talking for about an hour and i told her i liked her and she said really :p thts nice but i g2g ttyl

vashti · #6 (**permalink**) 01-10-06, 11:54 AM

Ah, well. I guess you can't win them all. Better luck next time.

Off2College · #7 (**permalink**) 01-10-06, 01:48 PM

mad props to you for asking. i might be in the same situation soon.

TheLuvDoc · #8 (**permalink**) 03-10-06, 08:29 AM

Next time don't just say "I like you" - that's putting all your cards on the table. Instead invite her out, either on a date or just socially with a bunch of friends.

Mathias · #9 (**permalink**) 03-10-06, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Joemofo

I dont think she likes me beacuse we must of been talking for about an hour and i told her i liked her and she said really :p thts nice but i g2g ttyl

Heh.

Ouch. That's the worst I've heard in a while.

frank001 · #10 (**permalink**) 03-10-06, 09:16 PM

dont ask them do there like you just just say do you wanna catch a movie or somefing but play it cool

derm · #11 (**permalink**) 04-10-06, 01:25 AM

Tiay is a rock of scense for a young one. She doesn't need any coaching that's for sure

Tiay · #12 (**permalink**) 04-10-06, 07:26 AM

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Originally Posted by derm

Tiay is a rock of scense for a young one. She doesn't need any coaching that's for sure

thanks

I'm not into playing games. If you like someone, tell them. If they don't like you back, chances are they wouldn't have liked you back after a movie either.

derm · #13 (**permalink**) 04-10-06, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Tiay

thanks

I'm not into playing games. If you like someone, tell them. If they don't like you back, chances are they wouldn't have liked you back after a movie either.

Words of wisdom.....I'm taking notes

Gigabitch · #14 (**permalink**) 04-10-06, 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Tiay

thanks

I'm not into playing games. If you like someone, tell them. If they don't like you back, chances are they wouldn't have liked you back after a movie either.

I like you, Tiay!

KillaJakez · #15 (**permalink**) 05-10-06, 04:25 AM

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really :p thts nice but i g2g ttyl

OUCH.....shut down. Brutal. You see guys this is what im talking about. This is the ego trip that guys fuel when they put all the cards on the table. Go on a simple coffee or lunch thing and test the waters. She was beyond brutal. She didn't even bother saying that she doesn't feel the same way.