i need advice

[420ers]

There is this girl, that is sooo amazeing. I known her for a few months and we hang out alot, and talk on the phone alot, and i have fallen for this girl.
I even feel she feels the same way, but everytime we start to get intament, like starting to get all touchy and feely i'll put my arm around her, she'll rest her head on my shoulder and put her legs on my lap while we are watching a movie or something, after a few minets she gets up and runs to the other room, and useally i will find her crying. Then she tells me that she can't do these things because of somethings in her life. Then for the longest time i could'nt figure out what those things where bc she would never tell me. Then from sources that i have, i found out she has a boyfriend, and he is long distant and i gusse then be going out for a long time. Now i don't know what to do, i don't know if she feels the same for me, i am almost certiant that she does, and i am confused why she never told me she had a boyfriend..she still thinks i don't know ither. It seems like now everytime we hang out, we are getting closer and closer and more intament, i am really confused, i know she is commited, but i know she does'nt want to be, i can just see it.

[vashti]

I think you should tell her bluntly how you feel about her, and tell her you want her to get rid of the boyfriend.

[Gigabitch]

^^^ What she said.

I also think it's a red flag that she didn't tell you about him herself. What's up with that?

[420ers]

well, i really really want to tell her, but i don't know when. I think it would make things more complicated.

[vashti]

Ifyou want to resolve the matter, follow my advice. It may or may not go as you wish, but at least you would have resolution. On the other hand, you could allow this situation to continue on indefinitely as it is.

[420ers]

well i gusse your right, i could do it things go completely wrong, or things could go the way i want, i gusse i will never know till i do it