Hey All You Wussy Guys...

[GigaloDJ]

Seems to me like there is an abundance of chump on this site.

Stop asking questions like:

"Does she like me?" (Have this kind of attitude: She likes me until proven otherwise)
"Should i kiss her?" (yes)
"How do i ask her out?" (You don't ask. You tell.)
"Should I buy her flowers?" (No. Only if she is your girlfriend/wife)
...And so on!!

C'mon now! The main problem is Meeting New Girls, Right?! It seems like the problem but it isn't. The problem starts with YOU. Fix and improve yourself. CONFIDENCE.

Make sure that the next few girls you pick up you DON'T GIVE A SHYT!! Act crazy! (confidence will grow)

You will go out and pick up lots of girls this weekend. You better go out and GET REJECTED!! Ohhhh yeah!! Get Rejected! Get rejected like 10 times! Why?! Because you won't be afraid to approach and talk to girls anymore!
-GDJ

[sfalexi]

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You better go out and GET REJECTED!! Ohhhh yeah!! Get Rejected! Get rejected like 10 times! Why?! Because you won't be afraid to approach and talk to girls anymore!

As stupid as it sounds, this is a great approach. Of course try to go places where you won't have to see the girl again in case you do get rejected (a highly populated mall would do, or another public place). You really don't want to get rejected by a few girls at work and then have to face them every day for the next ____ years.

And it's pure logic. The more you do something, the less afraid and anxious you are to do it. Ever jump out of an airplane? I have. The first two or three times were scary. After that it got easier and easier till I couldn't wait till my jumpmaster said, "GO!"

Asking girls out is no different. Seriously, all you need is practice with flirting. As your shopping in a store just practice your witty remarks on whoever happens to be near you. Ask random girls how you'd look in a certain shirt or pants. It's fun, and can be funny if you pick the right clothes (like I did once)

Alexi

[Zekk_T_Strife]

However you'll notice most of these guys asking these questions are one time posters who only want to recieve advice for their one issue and once it's resolved they never show up around here again. So this thread is pretty much wasted.

[jane]

I think Gigalo is wasted....

[K3vMySt3r]

i second that

[LightOn]

I don't think they are leaving because the problem is solved, I think they are leaving for mainly the same reason they post in the first place. They depend to much on others to "fix" their problems, and if it's not fixed soon they lose faith. It all revolves around the same shit all the time anyway.

[jane]

yeah, and the fact that they may not like what the forum's advice is.. almost like there are looking for validation that what they are feeling is ok.

[squirrley]

no shit, looking for validation, HEY WAIT THATS ME?

[jane]

and me too.. hell.. we all need it sometimes..

[Illusional]

there are two sides to every coin and one of them has to be to your likings. raverboy

[jane]

how profound..

[Zekk_T_Strife]

I hate the guys who ask for opinions and advice and when you give it theyre like "no that's not what I wanted to hear." Either way there's no slapping sense into them, hopefully a lifetime of misery and depression will do that to them when they realize they're tards.

[jane]

"I am a violent mix of an angel and a demon. A vengeful being of mercy resides in my heart and a compassionate killer controls my mind."

so true...
...hhmmm.....

[hellspare]

Usually people leave to test if what they hear works. They don't come back because.....they are successful?

[Zekk_T_Strife]

Or they fail miserably and kill themselves or begin molesting infants.