Question for everyone - Love Forum

Sami09 · #1 (**permalink**) 09-10-06, 02:32 PM

a person i know had a gf for 5 years its been since then a few months since they broke up and he already seein someone else its close to official almost there. do you think he rushin into things?

#2 (**permalink**) 09-10-06, 03:59 PM

No .

vashti · #3 (**permalink**) 09-10-06, 09:25 PM

He may or may not be. Who knows? What difference does it make what WE think? He will do what he wants, anyway.

Mathias · #4 (**permalink**) 09-10-06, 11:09 PM

I went on a date a week after a girl and I broke up after 4 years.

It's not going to be serious, but I think people should stay out of my business when it comes to stuff like this...and if he's ready, he's ready. Leave him alone.

Sami09 · #5 (**permalink**) 09-10-06, 11:17 PM

its none of my business i just want him happy i was pretty shocked when he broke up with his gf . but whatever makes him happy . i just dont get why after a long relationship u want to rush into something else.

Mathias · #6 (**permalink**) 10-10-06, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Sami09

its none of my business i just want him happy i was pretty shocked when he broke up with his gf . but whatever makes him happy . i just dont get why after a long relationship u want to rush into something else.

1. Maybe he's not rushing. Maybe he found something.
2. Maybe he got over it.
3. Maybe he and the girl are just having fun.
4. Maybe they're NOT close to "official".
5. Maybe this is how he copes.

There's a LOT more options than "rushing" into things.

Sami09 · #7 (**permalink**) 10-10-06, 04:22 AM

mathias you couuld be right i just hope he doesnt rush anything cause i dont know if it could really be over his ex they dated for 5 years like i said before. maybe its not serious with the new girl. i have no idea how long it would take to get over a person 5 years is a lot

Gigabitch · #8 (**permalink**) 10-10-06, 04:24 AM

It depends on how much got worked out before the breakup. For some people, breaking up is a terrible shock coming out of the blue. For others, there can be years of contemplation and processing before they finally make the move, and they may be ready to move on the day after they end it.

Frasbee · #9 (**permalink**) 10-10-06, 04:26 AM

Your sentence structure is horrible.

Anyway, 5 months isn't what I would consider rushing.

You're acting as if more time spent with a person requires more spent single.

Doesn't work like that.

Now if it was only a few weeks, then I'd be curious.

Sami09 · #10 (**permalink**) 10-10-06, 05:23 AM

its havent been 5 years who said it been 5 months. I said maybe a month but at it you could be right then could have ended on good term. i still think its hard 5 years being together is so long to break up and move on that is hard maybe he totally over her and movin on with his life he seen happy and thats what matter