what does this mean? - Love Forum

dreamflyer · #1 (**permalink**) 05-11-06, 04:40 PM

ok, she was at my school last year. then left for another. i meet up with her on the net about 3-4 weeks ago, and we started talking again.

I invited her tramping with me yesterday, and she came. there were 2 other guys with me.
On the way home, i kept glancing in the mirror to see her looking at me, and after about the 3rd or 4th time lol (wed make eye contact each time), i held the look for a moment, and got a nice warm fuzzy smile.

then last night, she ended her txt with "got to go, nite nite, x"

and today, she had to come and get a bag she left in the car yesterday, and hung around for prob an extra 10 mins or so just 'chatting'.

am i seeing things right??? if u tell me she's into me, i'll tell her i'm into her as well...(coz i am). lol

thanks

Prodigal · #2 (**permalink**) 05-11-06, 05:07 PM

I'd probably say she's interested because of the looking thing. The other stuff doesn't necessarily mean much except that she's comfortable with you. Also, who knows but you may be looking into things too much and describing it to us in such a way that leads us to think a certain way.

However, I think that there is some interest there... see what happens

vashti · #3 (**permalink**) 05-11-06, 09:47 PM

If you like someone, tell them. That is the only way you will ever know if they reciprocate your feelings.

Tiou · #4 (**permalink**) 05-11-06, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by vashti

If you like someone, tell them. That is the only way you will ever know if they reciprocate your feelings.

Best advice ever!

dreamflyer · #5 (**permalink**) 06-11-06, 10:01 AM

ok thanks...
and i have told it exactly as it happend. wat you read is what it is

Mathias · #6 (**permalink**) 06-11-06, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by vashti

If you like someone, tell them. That is the only way you will ever know if they reciprocate your feelings.

Um, no. If you like someone, ask them out.

Vashti, think about this as if you were a woman.

You sort of like some guy, and would be interested in going out with him, but aren't sure how you feel about him. We've all been there, many times.

Now, what's more likely to make you comfortable, at ease, and willing to see him again? A sudden declaration of strong feelings, or a simple invitation to dinner?

Take it slow, OP.

vashti · #7 (**permalink**) 06-11-06, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Mathias

Um, no. If you like someone, ask them out.

Vashti, think about this as if you were a woman.

You sort of like some guy, and would be interested in going out with him, but aren't sure how you feel about him. We've all been there, many times.

Now, what's more likely to make you comfortable, at ease, and willing to see him again? A sudden declaration of strong feelings, or a simple invitation to dinner?

Take it slow, OP.

"I like you; let's get together sometime" isn't exactly a marriage proposal, is it? And it is hardly a declaration of "strong feelings". It could easily be followed up with "Oops, I don't really like you after all".

Prodigal · #8 (**permalink**) 06-11-06, 12:55 PM

Regardless, the premise is still the same, right? Regardless of the approach, the important part IS that he does approach.

dreamflyer · #9 (**permalink**) 06-11-06, 02:44 PM

wow...u all lost me now..!

dreamflyer · #10 (**permalink**) 06-11-06, 03:32 PM

kk, thanks

Mathias · #11 (**permalink**) 06-11-06, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by vashti

"I like you; let's get together sometime" isn't exactly a marriage proposal, is it? And it is hardly a declaration of "strong feelings". It could easily be followed up with "Oops, I don't really like you after all".

Hahaha...

Like others have said, asking the girl out is implying you like her.

Maybe I just don't like giving up the power that early.

vashti · #12 (**permalink**) 06-11-06, 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Mathias

Hahaha...

Like others have said, asking the girl out is implying you like her.

Maybe I just don't like giving up the power that early.

I think stating the obvious makes a person appear direct and confident. Those are (to me) positive qualities that are very attractive.

Mathias · #13 (**permalink**) 07-11-06, 04:39 AM

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Originally Posted by vashti

I think stating the obvious makes a person appear direct and confident. Those are (to me) positive qualities that are very attractive.

Now you're just throwing my whole world into turmoil.

I was actually going to ask out a girl tomorrow...but now....

Bah. I'm just staying single for 40 years.

Gigabitch · #14 (**permalink**) 07-11-06, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Mathias

Now you're just throwing my whole world into turmoil.

I was actually going to ask out a girl tomorrow...but now....

Bah. I'm just staying single for 40 years.

Yeah, that's likely..............NOT!

Mathias · #15 (**permalink**) 07-11-06, 04:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Yeah, that's likely..............NOT!

Hahahahahaha.