Originally Posted by
Mathias
1 month? Really?
Impressive if true, but I'm not buying.
???
Anyway, I think that if you have a drink or two, but
not more than two per hour, you will find yourself more comfortable without looking like a sloshy drunk.
You can ask how the girl knows the party giver, ask about school majors/work/family/hobbies, etc. Fortunately for you, most girls would be trying to make it easy for people to talk to them.