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20-10-06, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Alex Nova  If a woman cheats its usually because her current bf/husband is not making a good effort or is letting her walk all over him. Infact when a girl dumps a guy and goes for another man, the one to blame is the ex BF who practically hand wrapped her for the next guy.
Once a woman finds a good partner, she will stick to him like glue.
As for men cheating, its in our nature. We were made to make as many women pregnant as possible. A woman can have 1 baby a year. While a man can make women pregnant everyday... thats deep core psychology... I wont get into if its wrong or right. Dude, you're an idiot.
I say that in the nicest way possible.
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21-10-06, 02:06 AM
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| | | That you have the desire to screw anything in sight is biology. To act upon that desire is a choice.
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21-10-06, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted by damoclesjones No, I'm saying you only cheated on your ex because you haven't lost yourself yet.
Then you misunderstand. Hanging onto guilt is insane; but when you really see how selfish, shoddy and cruel you have been, you first feel a guilt that almost completely crushes you; from this, redemption is possible. What the **** are you, Christian?
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21-10-06, 11:11 AM
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21-10-06, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Mathias Dude, you're an idiot.
I say that in the nicest way possible. Thats ok... I think you have no social skills at all!
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22-10-06, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Aegis LOL
I liked that.
You think it's a choice because you're female.
And anyway, Mathias...
Defining success as passing one's particular set of genes on to proportionally more viable offspring than others, it is advantageous for men to get as many women pregnant as possible. Since women bear the children, obviously it is in their best interest to be as selective as possible, since the time to reproductive maturity in humans is rather long.
If we had reproductive cycles similar to cockroaches, women would be less selective and men wouldn't be thought of as such promiscuous pigs. That's the purely evolutionary point of view.
At any rate, I don't advocate being a dead-beat father in the name of evolutionary success unless you're me. I have to save the world by making more of me. My point in calling him an idiot was the attempt to put males and females into categories, and saying they all cheat for THAT reason.
It's not true. I cheated. Why? I was insecure.
One of my exes cheated. Why? Because she loved sex.
My best friend always cheats on her boyfriends? Why? Because she likes to get back at them whenever she gets into a fight.
Categorizing people into those two, simplistic categories ruins the entire purpose for actually sitting and looking at each individual situation, and trying to help people grow.
THAT'S why he's an idiot. He's not helping anything...just sticking generalities into each thread he's in without looking at the real situations involved.
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22-10-06, 11:09 PM
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| | | For the record I never had a girlfriend and thus never cheated on anybody.
I just wanted* throw that dude's argument in his face.
'Cause his argument was dumB.
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23-10-06, 12:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Frasbee For the record I never had a girlfriend and thus never cheated on anybody.
I was just throw that dude's argument in his face.
'Cause his argument was dumB. So um ... why are you even giving advice about cheating? 
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23-10-06, 02:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Alex Nova So um ... why are you even giving advice about cheating? You don't need to be a cheater to have opinions about cheating, just as you don't have to be fat to have opinions about food.
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23-10-06, 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Aegis Dumb with a capital B! I know that looks like a typo, but I really did mean dumB.
Don't question it, simply because I can't explain it.
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23-10-06, 07:30 AM
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| | | Didnt the guy say he had no experience with women at all?
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23-10-06, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Alex Nova Didnt the guy say he had no experience with women at all? If you're referring to me, I never said I had no experience with them, I did however say I've never had a girlfriend.
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23-10-06, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Frasbee If you're referring to me, I never said I had no experience with them, I did however say I've never had a girlfriend. So do tell about your female encounters or are they male? heh... 
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| | | Women cheat because they are looking for something that their present partner is not able to give to them in sufficient amount or quality.
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24-10-06, 05:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Alex Nova So do tell about your female encounters or are they male? heh... What's there to tell?
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