Help needed please!

[adam_clio]

Hi, i really need some help/advice.

Basically i joined Faceparty.com and thought id have a look at what people were in my area etc. I found quite a few people to my surprise but i found one and thought id add her.

Anyway ive been chatting to her for a couple of weeks now. We've exchanged mobile numbers etc, so we've been texting each other every day and also talking on Msn Messenger. Last weekend we were both off work so chatted ALL day saturday and ALL sunday on MSN and on the phone (9 1/2 hrs). I was chatting to her until 1.30am sunday night etc getting to know her a lot better etc.

Im not particulary good at talking to women,so i was surprised at how easy she is to talk to and a real laugh. But on monday we texted each other a couple of times you know saying how are you hows work, stuff like that. I texted her on tuesday and didnt hear anything back, so i texted her again last night to see if she was allright no reply?.

I thought ok fair enough she hasnt got credit etc so ill ring her, she didnt answer.
She came on msn this afternoon i said "hi how its going" you know the normal sort of stuff but she didnt reply?. Next thing i know shes logged off msn and turned her phone off?

Im totally confused!, she had been acting as though we were sort of a couple (although i never suggested this too her). So what do i do now? leave her alone and see what happens??.

Any help or advice would be very much appreciated

Thanks
Adam

[BlueRaven]

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Originally Posted by adam_clio

I thought ok fair enough she hasnt got credit etc so ill ring her, she didnt answer.
She came on msn this afternoon i said "hi how its going" you know the normal sort of stuff but she didnt reply?. Next thing i know shes logged off msn and turned her phone off?

Sorry to break it to you man, but that's a dead giveaway that she's no longer interested. It's a shitty way of going about letting you know, but it's the truth, I'm afraid.

[ACR]

...Or maybe something came up.

Id wait it out.

[Painfulheart]

yeah i agree wait it out, but ease off

i know its real hard but dont text or msn her for a while

i cant even take my own advice but i hope you do, you dont want to seem desperate. something may of happened, money problems, lost phone, or something unforseen.

[vashti]

Too much contact, I bet. Make yourself less available. We all want most what we can't have.

[adam_clio]

Thanks for the advice people.

You seem the weird thing was on saturday night she went out, i didnt text her (as i didnt want to seem too keen) and she text me asking me why i hadnt text her). I havent text her since wednesday now and she hasnt text me or anything so unless she makes contact with me im not going to bother with her anymore.

I was a little bit all over the place the other day but not ive seen sense. If shes interested shell contact me.

Thanks alot people!

[Alex Nova]

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Originally Posted by vashti

Too much contact, I bet. Make yourself less available. We all want most what we can't have.

True. Also get off the net and meet people in real life.

//STOP SPAMMING//

[adam_clio]

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Originally Posted by Alex Nova

True. Also get off the net and meet people in real life.

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Easier said than done for me unfortunately. Im quite a shy person in all honesty and cant talk to people face to face very easily if i dont know them.





Right ive just been on her Faceparty/myspace profiles and she hasnt been online since the 25/10, this isnt like her at all so i suspect something must have come up. Do you think i should try and contact her to see if she is ok? as im worried something might have happened to her?.

[adam_clio]

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Originally Posted by Aegis

Dude...that's 3 days...relax.

I guess i panic a bit lol. its just weird that weve been talking everyday then she just stops thats all. Im sh*t at this sort of thing, cheers though mate.