How do i tell someone my feelings for her?

[Painfulheart]

Ive been infatuated for 8 months with this girl, the only reason i havent done anything is she has a boyfriend.

Yesterday we spent 3 hours talking alone, and the whole time we were constantly staring into each others eyes, making physical contact, like arm bumps/brushing, hand grabbing, her resting her arm on mine etc, and all round flirting. She even pushed back meeting her bf to spend longer with me.

She came from the country, and the only person she knows is her boyfriend. She doesnt really know anyone else. And ive gotten the feeling she doesnt see her bf much either.

Im extremely confident if she wasnt with him, she would be interested in me. I also think she is only with him cos he is the only familiar face. I know thats all assumption.

Im am so sure she isnt a tease, ive just got this gut instict, from how she acts with me, and from how her eyes look into mine everytime we talk (wide eyed, glistening, deep).

What do i say to her to let her know i really feel?

She is going back home for Uni break soon, and i need to know if she has feelings for me.

Ive really wanted to talk to her about it for a long time, but was praying for her current relationship to end but it didnt. (yes thats terrible of me)

I know the proper thing to do is say nothing, but im not sure if thats the right thing.

I just dont know how to put it, or what to say and expect back

[vashti]

I think you should tell her you are interested in dating her, and ask her if she would consider breaking off with her boyfriend.

[kai]

Go to her and just tell her what you feel for her . There is no point in praying or waiting for the breakup of her with her bf . And dude don't ask her to breakup with her bf . If she loves you she'll do it herself

[Alex Nova]

You waited 8 MONTHS for this girl to come around even though she had a BF all this time? Seriously how many girls could you have met during that period who are single... around 50?

This girl has two guys competing for her and you somehow think she will break up with him to be with you... ok everyone has fairytale dreams.

You are a friend to her, nothing more, yet you are desperately trying to use this friendship frame to make her like you as something else. Thats shifty and pathetic.

Either make a move now (if you have no morals) or forget her and move on (find a single girl), shes draining you and clouding your judgement.

And if she lives/cheats on her current BF now with you, then dont disqualify her doing the same to you in the future.

//STOP SPAMMING//

[Painfulheart]

8 months ago when i first met her i started to like her, and then i found out she had a boyfriend, so i didnt try anything, just talked to her a lot.

About 2 months later our timetables changed and i hardly saw her, and its been like that till now.

I pretty much only see her on my way to car by chance, we have quick talk and say goodbye.

During the 8 months i have been looking around, even dated someone else, but what im getting at is, after all that time, the smallest conversation with her, still just shows how much i care for her.

then we caught up for a study session, and it was like my heart was beating to fast the entire time. 3 hours of bliss, talking, laughing and flirting.

Many times ive felt for someone like this, then we lose contact and ill forget about them, but i just cant with her.

Im actually gonna meet her boyfriend on wednesday (first time), so im gonna size their relationship up. If they look very much in love, i will step away, but if it looks just like two friends, or that the spark has gone, ill make my feelings clear.

I dont want her to break up with her bf for me (yes i realise i do), i want her to know someone else is very interested in her, and that if she isnt 100% happy, or feels she is just hanging on, she wont be alone.

She told me most days/night, when not at Uni or work, she is just home alone. and i kinda got hint she doesnt see boyfrined much (may be wrong, hearing what i want to hear).

All her friends are over 8 hours away, and she doent hang out with anyone at uni. So from what im ASSUMING (hoping) is she is only with her boyfriend so she isnt all alone.

[Gigabitch]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Painfulheart

Im actually gonna meet her boyfriend on wednesday (first time), so im gonna size their relationship up. If they look very much in love, i will step away, but if it looks just like two friends, or that the spark has gone, ill make my feelings clear.

That is such a gallant, thoughtful way of going about this. I'm impressed.

[Alex Nova]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gigabitch

That is such a gallant, thoughtful way of going about this. I'm impressed.

yeah i agree, good move.

//STOP SPAMMING//