How to actually flirt? - Love Forum

hellspare · #1 (**permalink**) 25-01-04, 10:58 AM

Well yea..I'm only 13..and things from my perspective are very narrow, so i just want to ask some of the people out there with more experience than I(or less, doesn't matter)how to actually flirt with a girl. Reason I'm asking is there's this girl that i really have a huge crush on, and i really want to get around her more. She's a grade higher than me, so I dont' have ANY classes with her. I haven't spoken to her all that much, an occasional hi here and there. But I just really want to get to know her better. Well basically what I'm asking is how do I get to know her better?
And basically not looking like a retard when talking to her and stuff.

K3vMySt3r · #2 (**permalink**) 26-01-04, 03:34 AM

u can g2 the dances if you can... talk with her... or have someone a friend to introduce you to her...

IceQueen · #3 (**permalink**) 26-01-04, 05:08 AM

Get her phone number and call her to talk. That way she won't see how you're looking.

squirrley · #4 (**permalink**) 26-01-04, 06:58 AM

see if she has a computer and AOL, that's always fun, and you have time to think about what your'e saying, and she wont see if you get embarrassed or anything.

The dance thing is good too.

hellspare · #5 (**permalink**) 26-01-04, 07:01 AM

Hey thanx ppl. Yea I guess not talking to her person to person would be alot easier, but i was really asking for what do i do AT the dance to get to know her better. Then I'll take it from there and ask for her sn and stuff..

hellspare · #6 (**permalink**) 29-01-04, 10:14 AM

Hey srry that i'm getting a lil annoying, but what can i get for her for valentines? Something that isn't too expensive but not so cheap.

IceQueen · #7 (**permalink**) 29-01-04, 11:05 AM

CD with romantic songs.

Innova · #8 (**permalink**) 29-01-04, 11:19 AM

Theres these cute plush bears at Hallmark, when they kiss..the cheeks light up. Give her something like that with a red/white rose.

MVPlaya · #9 (**permalink**) 29-01-04, 11:49 AM

I'd go with a CD from a group she likes, not necessarily romantic, even at the age you're at. I would not get roses or anything like that. Only time I ever got a girl a flower she was my girlfriend already and she'd just lost a competition that was very important to her.

Innova · #10 (**permalink**) 29-01-04, 07:29 PM

Shit my bad....you are young...yeah the CD is nice.

hellspare · #11 (**permalink**) 31-01-04, 07:56 AM

U shurr..? A cd isn't really..........well i dunno how to say this but..i would give a cd to my regular friends.., it isn't real special in any way..

hellspare · #12 (**permalink**) 31-01-04, 08:00 AM

Well one more thing, i've been walkign around school alot and i just can't help but to try to follow to where she is at times. I appear just about everywhere she is. I think she might have lost a lil interest in me? Cuz she seems to be not looking at me alot. And i often find her with alot of other guys, not like huggin and kissin and stuff, but just hanging around and laughing.

MVPlaya · #13 (**permalink**) 31-01-04, 08:17 AM

Hellspare, I'm not sure, you're 13, she's 13, I pimp women who are 20. The age difference is ****ing huge. But if I were to make a guess about the girls I remember from when I was younger I would note that I would NOT, repeat: NOT, try to get something "special" so taht I could stutter and look nervously as she accepted it. Being confident and low-key is the way.