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Old 31-01-04, 09:40 AM
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I got a cool chick
I just realized that I have a pretty cool chick. On New Years Eve I got completely smashed. I mean, banging into walls throwing up in the bathroom multiple times smashed (off my fav - Rum!) We were by her sister's and brother in law's house, with her other brother and his girlfriend. And she wasn't embarrassed at all. She's conservative and doesn't drink herself, however she told me many times that although she doesn't do it she's not going to try to "impose" herself on me and tells me if I feel like getting drunk then to be her guest! She just doesn't want me to be a friggin' alcoholic.

So she's leading me around from party to party on her arm and we're having a good time (at least I was!) until it's time to go to sleep. I throw up in the bathroom, waddle to my room, and pass out. She goes into the bathroom, cleans up for me (since I kinda missed the toilet - ), scrubs the shirt I'm wearing, and wakes me up the next day laughing as she tells me how she had to clean up after me.

How awesome is that? She didn't flip or anything, but took care of me like a good woman should! (yeah! That's right! I think a woman should take care of her man!) How many girlfriends do YOU know that would simply clean up after their man and laugh about it in the morning not being upset? Not to mention cook them breakfast the next morning (french toast and eggs).

Like the old adage says, "If you spew and they bolt, it was never meant to be."

Alexi

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Old 31-01-04, 09:49 AM
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its ok with me! You do have a cool chick. I would do the same though. You have to. Its the girlfriend role sometimes! I am glad to hear you are still with her!
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A desperate chick is what you got. (Or else, it's your first strike.)
With someone with more self-esteem or brains to know that she could do better, you'd be out on your ass in 5 minutes flat.
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She didn't flip or anything, but took care of me like a good woman should! (yeah! That's right! I think a woman should take care of her man!)
But of course you'd do the same for her.
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ICE-Queen, we've been together for longer than a year so I think it's safe to say we're past the "desperate" stage. And yes I'd do the same for her (although I'd bring it up every now and then as a sort of "blackmail" to get what I want later. The "Well you remember that one time you spewed . . . . " line)

Besides, she's dated a lot, knows that most guys are out for sex (or at least the ones she's dated) and knows that I'm different and great and worth holding onto. So it's not that she "doesn't know" that she can do better, but, very bluntly, she can't do better. Cause I'm awesome.

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Yeah, self-esteem issues (on her side, not yours).
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Well, I can't speak for her since I don't know her thoughts. But all I know is that even though guys ask her out all the time, she turns them down cause she's got me. And that's all I need to know.

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Good for you sweetie, that's ALL that matters anyway, what you want and what she wants....if your'e enjoying eachothers company, have fun...
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Re: I got a cool chick
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Like the old adage says, "If you spew and they bolt, it was never meant to be."

Alexi

thats funny... waynes world...

wow you're lucky. you better thank her
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