One Word .... JEALOUSY - Love Forum

jane · #1 (**permalink**) 21-02-04, 08:06 AM

Describe it..

Jealous, Jealousy, Jealousness...

Do you or dont you get jealous and why?

squirrley · #2 (**permalink**) 21-02-04, 12:07 PM

NOPE. Use to with the x, but it was insecurties. Now, dont give a shit, there shouldnt be a reason to be jealous if you know the one youre with is in love with you.

Feel secure with myself far and foremost.

jane · #3 (**permalink**) 21-02-04, 12:12 PM

.. I get jealous.. I wont lie.. but I can usually refain from getting out of control.

squirrley · #4 (**permalink**) 21-02-04, 12:23 PM

well i forgot to describe what it means to me. I sure the hell was a leading expert on it years ago. So now when I look back, it wasnt a very nice characterstic of mine. Now its check, know how to handle it IF it comes up. I actually have a small amount going on with my life, but nothing I cant handle.

I think everyone has that tendency, it can be good at times and super bad at others. Ya just have to know when its time to do reality check!

lemonade69 · #5 (**permalink**) 21-02-04, 06:45 PM

yes, i am jealous of the girl my crush is going out with. but i don't know her so it's kinda hard to be 'jealous' if you know what i mean. i'm more regretful than anything.

on the other hand, i have pretty much everything else in life. but i think this just makes me more jealous cos this person has the one thing i can't have. does that make sense?

IceQueen · #6 (**permalink**) 22-02-04, 12:05 AM

I don't get jealous. Ever. I think it's because I never pick a guy who would want to make me jealous, because if I see a guy exhibiting this kind of behavior, that turns me off completely, forever.

Innova · #7 (**permalink**) 22-02-04, 04:00 AM

I can get Jealous, but rarely does it ever get outta hand, as even still I try my best not too, so its nothing real problematic.

LightOn · #8 (**permalink**) 24-02-04, 12:18 PM

No Jealousy here, used to a couple years ago but I come to terms with the fact that it does absolutely nothing progressive.

All the things that caused me to feel jealous were for selfish reasons. I replace jealousy with acceptance, I look for the innocense in the person or whatever.

Kumar · #9 (**permalink**) 24-02-04, 01:52 PM

Stupid Q. !
Wasting our times..........................

Jealousy was come out by LOVE.

If u don't accept "LOVE",

This Q is not suit With u....................

Jane.....................

sfalexi · #10 (**permalink**) 24-02-04, 02:53 PM

I get jealous, but I never show it or act on it. I can't help it sometimes. I know my woman is hot. And I know guys are going to ask her out. So I can't help but wonder about what her clients (she's a hairdresser) say to her and how many of them ask her out. And most of them are pieces of trash only interested in her for sex (which she wouldn't give them even if she WASN"T so interested in me).

Just two days ago she told me about a guy who had been asking her out for a while and she kept denying. So he told her, "If you ever want to go out sometime though, it'd be tough to go out at night cause I'm married and that's when my wife would expect me to be home. Oh. Would you feel awkward going out with me even though I'm married?"

And no, that's not even CLOSE to the first married man that's asked her out.

Alexi

hysteria · #11 (**permalink**) 25-02-04, 12:58 PM

oh jelousy really is a curse!!
i swear i have been jelous with nearly every girl i like. I start to get attached to the girl and something happens but a week later poof!! its gone and they're off with other guys, so i get a bit jelous then but i keep pushing on looking for a girl that will want to share something with me for a while. So i guess i keep my jelousy under control.

hazeleye · #12 (**permalink**) 25-02-04, 02:53 PM

Jealousy is only human, i think. But if you're getting jealous over his/her job/family/friends, then... I don't want to remember that

(My ex was like that bc i'm an awful busy all the time)

fear_21 · #13 (**permalink**) 13-07-05, 04:59 PM

i know a bunc of guys, who dont get jelous, and their girlf. are cheating with them. Cant believe this...i dont know what to fight for, not bein jelous, being, trust her or not....

missguided.rose · #14 (**permalink**) 13-07-05, 05:26 PM

Recently, I found out what jealousy is all about, and I really dislike it, it's a horrible feeling. I acted on it, and that was completely the wrong thing to do. It's the first time in my life I've ever felt jealous and I really hope it's the last =/

Only-virgins · #15 (**permalink**) 13-07-05, 05:28 PM

Jealousy has way to many aspects to it. Are you jealous of someones things? friends? girlfriend?...that might be bad but when your lover is giving nookie to someone else..thats not jealousy to be upset...its common and human sense.