WTF??? interested or not?? - Love Forum

y3kbuddy · #1 (**permalink**) 25-02-04, 05:36 AM

ok so i was talking to this girl online and we decided to go out. (We didnt meet online. We were friends from before.) I gave her option to take the initiative because I had done so and to no avail. So I told her, if you wana do something call me up. So she calls me on sat night to go out, but i was busy. She calls me up again Sunday to go to the mall but because of my hectic schedule this week, i wasn't able to do ANYTHING. I told her I would call her. I called her up...no answer. IM'ed her, no response. Called her up and left a message, and still nothing. So what's the deal?? Did I f-up? Is she still interested? What should i do?

Thanks in advance!

IceQueen · #2 (**permalink**) 25-02-04, 05:39 AM

Either revenge or genuinely busy. When did she give you her contact information. Before you blew her off or after?

y3kbuddy · #3 (**permalink**) 25-02-04, 06:53 AM

I've known her for a while now so i've had her info for a while but never really ""talked". She kept blowing me off when i asked her so I gave her the option to do it when she is ready. We started getting a little closer after her dog died. any ideas?

IceQueen · #4 (**permalink**) 25-02-04, 06:56 AM

Are her excuses legitimate? Dog dying sounds legitimate. If it's legitimate it's not personal. Ask her to contact you, again.

y3kbuddy · #5 (**permalink**) 25-02-04, 07:01 AM

she asked me to do something twice, but i legitametly had to blow her off. all this happened after her dog died. after i blew her off twice, she wont take my calls or reply. I told her that I would call her and everything.

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y3kbuddy · #6 (**permalink**) 25-02-04, 09:56 AM

ok I just talked to her, and she was incredibly busy and thats y I hav'nt been able to reach her. Guess I was tooo eager huh? well everything worked out.

jane · #7 (**permalink**) 25-02-04, 10:51 AM

.. ANOTHER PROBLEM SOLVED.... I will sleep well...

oh wait... I had nothing to do with this..

Ekips · #8 (**permalink**) 16-03-08, 01:48 PM

There is no 100% way to know if they are or aren't. Sometimes, people get attracted to you through you being attracted to them. It gives them a thought they might have not had before. Go, for it.

Really. Pick up the damn phone.

lemonade69 · #9 (**permalink**) 16-03-08, 02:53 PM

yea the wa i see it is, she's 'made a move' twice (to no avail), now it's kinda your turn don't you think?