what do i do The girl i like is hurting !!! (PLEASE answer)

[graeme]

right last night i went out with a girl-freind of mine . because she wanted to see me. she told me she ahd broken up with her boyfreind for 2 reasons 1 he was seeing his ex wife again and 2 because she wanted me instead. i truley like her and believe relationship could develop.

after she said that i kissed her i know i shudent off but i did and she kissed back. then ehr boyfreind turned up at the bar and there was an argument and he made her cry saying really nasty and horrible things so i confronted him and pushed him into a wall and told him f**k of if he didnt want to get hurt. when i turned around all i saw was a glimpse of her out the main door running.

i txted her 20 mins later asking where she was so i could comfort her because i care about what happens to ehr and i got no reply i told her i would ring ehr today and go and see her but i got no reply, do i leave her to cool off and let ehr deal with it ehrself i dont wna be the rebound guy in the relationship i want to take things very very slow to insure that she is over him before we get involved seriously.

i jsut want to be there for her and stop her hurting inside but i know i cant should i go see ehr today or as i say leave her to cool off ??

[graeme]

btw sorry fro spelling im in a hurry

[Tiay]

oh, man.. I don't know what to say here. You got rough with her ex? you kissed her? You strike me as being pretty impulsive.
I dunno.. the whole thing probably really shook her up.

[Mathias]

Yep. Just time to lay low for a little bit, and wait for her to come to you.

Kissing her, while I usually am a fan of the boldness, was the wrong move here.

[Jimmy1218]

Why'd you try to start a fight with her old bf? You're the one who's trying to steal her away, not to mention kissing in front of the old bf...you would probably be angry at her and swear if you were in the other guy's shoes.

[Gigabitch]

Oh, what a tangled web. First of all, don't worry about her. She'll come back, and hopefully she'll be clear of that guy.

Now graeme, you know you shouldn't be kissing people in bars. It's tacky and it causes all kinds of trouble. Take her home and kiss her there.

[bcarroll03]

dude, the ex was cheating,(that doesn't make any sense bu whatever) plus you don't just stand their and let someone talk to someone you care about like that!? he deresved it. but yeah, kissing was a little balsy, if she would have kissed you first then its different, oh yeah if you guys were drinking then talk to her when shes sober. Women tend to say things they don't realy men when they drink.

[dazed24]

wow, what a messy situation. the last time i was in this sort of messy situation..i just let it be and the girl came back. Just give her time to process some stuff...let time play its role. just hang in there

[Miss hotty]

Yes i agree with everyone on here. If i was her i would of done the same thing, just give her time