Friends with a beautiful lady

[walkguy]

Dear friends ,i have a question im a married male and i am friends witn this very nice looking woman and she has 2 kids ,she is currently seperated for a about a year now
i go out with her and a friend on a regular basis like every 2 weeks maybe to a dinner and a movie
Imy wife dont me going out with her and her friend ,they both like me alot , my wife thinks its very "gay" because i have mainly felmale friends would you think this of me ? all of the women i go outwith to volunteer with ,movies , concerts etc all like me there husbands dont like doing this with them so they apprecaite having a life and a friend like ,e is this weird do you think ??
another problem my lady friend i talked about earlier has kids and ill be going with them like to movies , museums, theme parks is there any thing wrong with that even though im married and my wife dont really mind actually you she ,she dont have many friends that she goes out with if it all so im the sociable one in the marraige
please let me know if im doing anything wrong espeially if any of the irlsim pals withg dont mnmd my company with them or there kids
thanks for some advice >>> s

[sfalexi]

I think you should start involving your wife in your social life. Go out with HER to museums. Go out with HER to the movies. Go out with HER to theatres. And, when she finds that she enjoys these places, invite her along when you meet up with these other people. I don't really understand why you wouldn't go out with your wife but instead go out with all these other people. She's your wife. You've made a committment to stick by her, in sickness or in health. So stick by her!

Alexi

[IceQueen]

How would you feel if your wife went out with two guy friends both of whom really liked her?

[Innova]

I would hate it...why? Because I've seen the results. Eventually she will begin to also like the guy or vice versa.

I follow my heart, but I never...ever, go for somebody who is already in a relationship...I don't care how bad I want the person, its not right. (Unless she shows interest because she is in a bad realtionship.)

[WhiteXFlamez]

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Originally posted by walkguy
Imy wife dont me going out with her and her friend ,they both like me alot ..............................my wife dont really mind actually.................

your wife doesn't know, and she knows
im figuring she knows????

anyways, you should never be going out with other girls when you are married

dats just wrong...why don't you bring your wife to these social places...

before you asked for advices.....when you were typing this
didn't you realize it's already wrong to begin with?

there shouldn't be any advice on these
this is common sense

same thing, what IceQueen said

would you want your wife to go out with 2 guys and they really liked her alot
and she spends her social life with a guy that has a family
to go to places
like a married couple

i don't want to be rude, but this is pathetic

[Pretender]

Just try to include your wife in your activities so you dont have to worry about not being fair to her. You definetly should watch out for someone to start growing feelings for the other. It's inevitable that feelings will develop. But if your wife really doesn't mind then don't sweat it.

[dubu]

Is the reason why you don't invite your wife to come out is because she doesn't click very well with your friends and because her presence alone would just dampen the atmosphere?

[sfalexi]

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Is the reason why you don't invite your wife to come out is because she doesn't click very well with your friends and because her presence alone would just dampen the atmosphere?

Even then. He can easily just go out with his wife INSTEAD of meeting his friends all the time. After all, his wife is supposed to be #1 priority. THEN friends.