Need Help Asap Going Round Her House In Half Hour!!!

[nitrousmc]

allright ladies and gentleman i have a situation here.....there is this girl that i really like and i mean really like and we have been seeing each other for about 2 months now and the other day she told me that she only wants to be mates with me and not my girl friend but still carry on the relationship that we have been having....but this is confusing coz the relationship we have been having is more or less bf and bf stuff coz ive dun ''stuff'' with her that you would only do if you where going out but i dont understand she says she only wants to be friends but still carry on....but i dont know about whyere you guys come from but here you dont realy do any sexual activity with your friends if u get me lol so i need some help here im confused and upset and im going round her house in half an hour coz she rung me and told me to go round so what is actually happeneing here guys!!

[miSSleepy]

sounds like she wants to be friends with benefits. That is, you may have a sexual relationship but without the strings attached. What you do now depends on what you want to do...

[nitrousmc]

okay but im still confused, i might be sleeping at her house tonight and i will see how things go and if i get the chance i will ask her why she wants to be friends but still carry on the sexual stuff thanks anyway but im still confused

[vashti]

She wants to be available to date other guys if they ask her out. This means she doesn't like you the way you might be hoping, but still wants to have sex.

[alidile]

you said it vashti.

[eXeSSum]

i agree friends with benefits depends on what youre looking for but if you really want her, be the bigger man tell her you respect her to much as a friend to do this

also this could be youre first big test lol

if you .... her as a friend she could presume youre not ready for being with a single women for who has friends with benefits have alot of friends