Why am I feeling like this??

[Charlyx]

I have really strong feelings for this guy who I have been totally besotted by since I first laid eyes on him about a year ago. There's such a chemistry between us and it's unbelievable how he makes me feel. There's been a little something between us which has happened on several occasions but it hasn't really developed much further yet. The fact that we're both shy doesn't help, but we are great friends at the moment and we see each other almost every day which is great. So I keep trying to forget about it but it seems no matter how hard I try I just can't get him off my mind, no other guy seem to compare to him. He's not the best looking guy in the world but to me he's perfect! I love the way he smiles when we have a playfight and when he picks me up in the morning, the way he makes me smile, the way he laughs, how helpless he looks when he's cold, how loving & caring he is, even the way he sings out of tune to all the songs first thing in the morning. I love absolutely everything about him and he always make me smile and I'm always happy when he's around, and down and depressed when he's away. It's really starting to get to me now, and on many occasions I find myself having a little sob because he's not here. I just can't get away from it because little things like songs etc constantly remind me of him. Why am I feeling this way? And what can I do to help myself?? Any advise appreciated.

Charly



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[BillyGalbreath]

O M G ! ! !

I am going to cry !!!

Thats almost exactly what my ex wife wrote about me in her diary !!!

My advice to you is tell tell him ! Jesus ! I loved when I found out my girl felt like that, and I am 100% sure he will too !

I am 100% sure it will start up a conversation on how he feels about you and then you two will become a couple.

I am extrememly happy for you - AND - if you two get together DONT LEAVE HIM !!!

I am a result of what will happen to him if you do leave him

NOW GO GET YOUR MAN !!!

[fancisvan]

no, no, don't tell him, it can be a tragedy! he will be afraid of it, he will escape away and then disappear from your life...Do you want him disappear or you want to keep the situation like this for a longer time?
If the boy said nothing, that means he is not already ready for love. Let him make the choice, give him some time...
I fact i've got the same problem, i am much more crazy than you, but i didn't say out that important sentence, beacause i know it's non of use...

[Rach]

Hmm...that's a tough one, because he may or may not have those same feelings for you. You seem liek your pretty much on your way to falling totally in love with this guy, so tell him subtly. I wouldn't come right out and spill all your feelings at the same time, because that may scare him away. But you know him better than us, so you'd kinda know how he'd react a little better. Just do what you think feels right and hope he thinks the same about you! That's pretty much all you can do. Good luck though!

[GreenTree]

I'm in a similar situation... But I'm a boy and she's a girl... Believe me... I'd love it if she told me she loved me... And I'd love to tell her that too, but I think time is important here... Slowly telling or making it clear to the other person that we love her/him is the best approach, I think...

[Pretender]

I say you should enjoy this feeling you get when you're with him and instead of crying when you are not together just try to think ahead to when you will see him next and you'll be excited as hell to get up in the morning. You never said if you wanted to actually be a couple with this young gent but I'm pretty sure you do so just drop subtle little hints and play off his reactions.

Wow am I jealous of you.

[Charlyx]

Aaaw thanks guys SO much for your help!

I think I'm gonna leave things as they are for the moment, and when the best time comes I'll tell him how I feel. I've waited a year, a bit longer can't hurt can it!?!

Thanks again guys





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