| always just friends ok... im a 24 yo female, heres my problem. i just started a new job and have developed a huge crush on this guy there. he has just moved to my town and has no transportation yet, so i have given him rides on several occasions, and i dunno, i guess maybe he likes me. but i am the type of person to not sugarcoat anything or beat around the bush, i sing loudly in the car, tell stupid jokes, and am very straightforward, sometimes to the point of embarassment. i make no apologies for how i am, but 9 out of 10 guys will tell you "they only like me as a friend". i keep telling myself the right guy will come along and see how amazingly fantastic i am, so i refuse to change and it is hard for me to even tone it down a notch. this guy is so smart, and so funny, and he has done several favors for me as well, so i know he likes me and enjoys my company, but i dont know HOW he likes me. i want to let him know how i feel, but i dont want things to be awkward. how do i do that? i kinda think he may know how i feel, so how can i bring it up without looking too pushy or overzealous? |