I'm not sure what to say. - Love Forum

enterprise · #1 (**permalink**) 15-03-08, 05:39 AM

Well at the last minute my love interest decided to help me and one of her best friends in a movie I was making because the supporting actress backed out. I'm finishing up the DVD and giving her a copy, as well as all my main actors and actresses...I have 0 classes with her...if I choose the moment right I can use the DVD to talk to her while she is alone. But as I've said before I'm bad with conversation in general and well if I could have a conversation it would make the next time I try to talk to her less awkward. Suggestions, tips, comments anythign is welcome and appreciated.

Gigabitch · #2 (**permalink**) 15-03-08, 05:42 AM

Write a screenplay for her and ask her to be in another movie.

enterprise · #3 (**permalink**) 15-03-08, 05:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Write a screenplay for her and ask her to be in another movie.

I'm already starting to plan a movie for next year and I want to use the same actors and actresses, assuming they all agree.

Gigabitch · #4 (**permalink**) 15-03-08, 06:03 AM

Next YEAR? No, no, no. That's way too long. There has to be some other way to see more of her.

enterprise · #5 (**permalink**) 15-03-08, 06:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Next YEAR? No, no, no. That's way too long. There has to be some other way to see more of her.

There is no reason to make another, no competition till next year

I took the time AI had last year in her classes for granted and now I have zero. The only possible way I can see of spending time with her is if I tell my friend I like her and she can arrange it so we hang out together. Seems like the worst idea especially if she spills, although I doubt she would to her...but she might tell my best friend and well it could end up like a chain but then she might keep the secret. Anyway I don't see anyway unless I go out for track and field like I wanted to last year before it was canceled, I believe she is on the track team. But that means missing some classes which until I know the schedule might be a bad idea.

I could ask her to write it with me? I'm brainstorming here.

enterprise · #6 (**permalink**) 16-03-08, 12:48 PM

time is shortening till I'm done and am giving her the DVD. Any other suggestions?

vashti · #7 (**permalink**) 16-03-08, 12:51 PM

Talk to her about your upcoming film plans. Ask her if she wants to collaborate so you can ensure it will appeal to females.

Ekips · #8 (**permalink**) 16-03-08, 02:40 PM

You want to take the chance you've got.

Like, really. Waiting around doesn't make you better at talking to people.

In a logical perspective, you being around her too much with no signs of interest (as I'm sure you're a shy person and exhibit not intended leaked shyness to her), she will see you as someone who is not interested, so best make SOMETHING happen now.

enterprise · #9 (**permalink**) 16-03-08, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Ekips

You want to take the chance you've got.

Like, really. Waiting around doesn't make you better at talking to people.

In a logical perspective, you being around her too much with no signs of interest (as I'm sure you're a shy person and exhibit not intended leaked shyness to her), she will see you as someone who is not interested, so best make SOMETHING happen now.

But what would I talk about, is my problem.

boobaa · #10 (**permalink**) 16-03-08, 10:45 PM

You don't have to talk about anything. Most of the girls like to talk, so just ask. Ask if she likes playing in a movie, what does she think of it and would she like to participate in the future. Its not actual signing, but I hope you can go on from there. Oh, and look her in the eye, it will leave an impression.

vashti · #11 (**permalink**) 16-03-08, 10:51 PM

Enterprise, it's good to have a few topics in the back of your head you can bring up if conversation lulls. However, real life isn't scripted, so you will have to go with the flow a little bit. Conversation usually evolves naturally. For example, if you are talking about your films projects, the conversation might naturally evolve into favorite film makers --> favorite movies --> movies you both want to see --> let's go see that movie together! See what I mean?

Other things you can bring up if you hit one of those uncomfortable silences might be school, college plans, family, vacation spots, pop culture, friends, etc.

enterprise · #12 (**permalink**) 17-03-08, 10:19 AM

K :o). Thanks guys I just always assumed people actually had back-up plans and that if it came to me I'd have nothing to say. Now I have two reasons to see her. One to say she was a great button pusher (she ran the slides at my play today), and then the next few days (don't know which) i'll give her the DVD. Wish me luck?

-Ent

p.s. I was a hit tonight at the play :o)