Finally got one in the sack... so there's hope! - Page 2 - Love Forum

lilwing · #16 (**permalink**) 20-03-08, 12:40 PM

Well, I might be getting laid this weekend. Another girl I know wants to get really drunk with me. She is kind of flirty, but she is one of those loose women, so I don't know how to take it. She had (and maybe still has) a crush on me.

I am happy either way. Always happy. Never bored. That's who I am.

Illusional · #17 (**permalink**) 20-03-08, 12:44 PM

here's what you do. get drunk, party with her, and have wild wild sex. then you and her won't feel bad when you both wake up with a hang over.

raverboy

lilwing · #18 (**permalink**) 20-03-08, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Illusional

here's what you do. get drunk, party with her, and have wild wild sex. then you and her won't feel bad when you both wake up with a hang over.

raverboy

I never get hangovers.

Illusional · #19 (**permalink**) 20-03-08, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by lilwing

I never get hangovers.

that's because you never drank enough the night before.

raverboy

lilwing · #20 (**permalink**) 20-03-08, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Illusional

that's because you never drank enough the night before.

raverboy

The most I ever drank was a 750 of 80 proof hard liquor, and 6 cans of beer. I passed out twice, the friends had to take the other alcohol away. I woke up the next day, moved all my belongings to a different room (this was when I got my own room in the dorms, on my birthday) I went out jogging with my friends, and played Ultimate Frisbee too. I did take a gigantic shit, later on though. I went to some kind of crazy after party, after I passed out twice. It was definitely one of the craziest nights I've ever lived, probably the most memorable birthday I'll ever have.

Illusional · #21 (**permalink**) 20-03-08, 03:43 PM

yeah i've been there too. only difference is that i'm either dumb enough or crazy enough to wake up at 6am in the morning while everyone else is passed out. we were camping and there was nothing else to do but to drive to the next town and basically drive back. yup, being up that early sucks.

raverboy

lilwing · #22 (**permalink**) 21-03-08, 10:52 AM

whoaaaa, she (christian girl, not the loose party girl) gave me her phone number and she wants to text message. i really don't want to text message, maybe i should just tell her that i don't have free messaging or something.

vashti · #23 (**permalink**) 21-03-08, 10:56 AM

Why don't you just tell her you prefer actual conversation?

lilwing · #24 (**permalink**) 21-03-08, 11:40 AM

Because I am being too much of a doormat. I think I will tell her that

lilwing · #25 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 11:41 AM

Update!

So I talked to this girl again, and I am a little creeped by her; I asked her what classes she was taking this semester, and then out of nowhere:

her:

"haha woooooow.....
so i'm texting 2 guys
one wants to know when he can come down here for a weekend and the other wants to know why i don't do bj's
wooooow"

me: (feeling creeped out by this comment at the moment) "tell him to put a cock in his mouth

"

her:

"lmao
wow give a second to recover from that comment
oh my gosh, ok yeah the guy that asked that is like a total prep so yeah that's just really really funny"

me: "why's that funny? nothing out of the ordinary, haha"

her: "ok he sed why not i sed cuz it just sounds gross...he sed why
i changed the subject"

me: "lol he sounds a little pushy if you ask me"

her: "lol
yeah but that's just who he is
he's a really good friend of mine so no worries
ironically....we met on facebook and have yet to meet in person

"

Anyone else feeling a little creeped out by that? I feel like she is trying to test me or something. It started an awkward silence, and it pretty much destroyed the conversation. She also asked earlier about my Eightfold Path icon earlier, and so I told her about my religious views, and she didn't try to jesus-stomp my ass or anything, which I thought was pretty cool, but still, that last part of the conversation was really creepy.

Mishanya · #26 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by lilwing

her:

"haha woooooow.....
so i'm texting 2 guys
one wants to know when he can come down here for a weekend and the other wants to know why i don't do bj's
wooooow"

Hehe

You know what I would say if I heard something like this?

"Are you serious? Such desperate loosers! You know what I encountered a few as well, 3 girls in the row asked me today when I'm coming over to their place, isn't that wierd? What's with all of these clingy people, eh? I told them I'm a busy guy, they'll just have to wait in line like everybody else"

Don't let rubbish like this throw you off lilwing. Never loose your cool, your sense of value and your confidence. Have fun with it. Show her why you're the only logical best choice. Catch her out in her own game.

lilwing · #27 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 03:14 PM

heh heh, i told some close friends about her, we chatted in my room for a while. i think she is going to sit in front of me in german tomorrow (my buddies sit next to me) she is really clever, let me tell you.

i think i am getting better at the whole having fun thing. i used to be very serious and no fun. thanks for the pointers.

Kiechi · #28 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 03:20 PM

Please make sure to change your boxers bud'!

lilwing · #29 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 03:47 PM

Haha, okay mother!

Dude, Kiechi in an apron. I don't have good imagery going through my head right now.

Kiechi · #30 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by lilwing

Haha, okay mother!

Dude, Kiechi in an apron. I don't have good imagery going through my head right now.

Yes, I agree. Turn the negative into a positive, lift up the apron