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Old 19-04-04, 01:15 PM
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my bf and i are completely in love. however, his ex gf is still hung up on him. they dated for a year or so. he broke up with her last year but she still calls him. he doesnt call her but he will RETURN her calls if she leaves him messages. i guess i could just be jealous, but the fact that he has no real friendship with her yet he still keeps in touch with her bugs me... am i just nuts?
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No not nuts just jealous and rightly so as long as you keep it in check. If you weren't jealous something would be wrong with you because there is a history there and like they say history repeats itself.

As long as you trust him to not cheat and the situation doesn't make you too uncomfortable I wouldn't worry. Talking more than twice a week is too much though and if he does this with her I would give him an ultimatum because even twice a week is pushing it.

If this girl IS trying to get with your man though I would consider asking him to not talk on the phone so much to her or not at all because if he has feelings for you he should understand you don't trust her and he is putting you in an awkward situation.

There is really no reason though for you to have to worry about another girl and if he doesn't understand this and do something about it then hes not worth it hun. Relationships have enough problems without someone trying to butt in them all the time. In order for you two to move on he has to give up the past if it bothers you.
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Well, tell him that it must be a huge EGO boost for him that his ex is still hung up on him, otherwise he wouldn't encourage her by RETURNING her calls.

Tell him that you'll **** off until he makes a choice, and keep your word.
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