Need help getting relationship going again - Love Forum

Mr Wigglz · #1 (**permalink**) 14-05-08, 10:40 AM

I needs help!!! Me and my girlfrind had a Huge fight (like break up huge) we have kinda made up and all but I still feel like I'm on thin ice. I get all nervise when I'm going to meet up with her (btw we are in our late teens) I truly do love her and I don't want to loose her. I would love to take to a romantic spot and have dinner together, just the two of us but the place we live in is a bit of a hole. There is no where romantic around here... we both don't like each others parents so we avoid the houses so we can't snuggle up and watch a dvd or somthing. Dose anyone have solutions to my problems? If so I would love to hear them.

P.s we both have bipolar disorder... but I get realy bad depression and then I want to end my life. I almost went to after the fight...

Mr Wigglz · #2 (**permalink**) 14-05-08, 12:19 PM

I'm sorry. My head is all a mess . I can't keep going the way I am. I worry about everything.

Gigabitch · #3 (**permalink**) 14-05-08, 11:41 PM

Late teens, huh? Are you still in high school? Do you have a plan for your life? Let me tell you, the intention of getting out of that "hole" of a town could make you very attractive to her. I don't know what to say about your current intimacy-free situation, but I think you need to get something going in your own life. Chicks dig that.

Mr Wigglz · #4 (**permalink**) 15-05-08, 07:49 AM

We both finished highschool (we are 19). I don't realy find myself as a good looking person. I have looked for better jobs but there isn't any around in this town. But I don't want to move town and leave her behind. Its been a few months since we have "done anything" aka in the bedroom. Its like she has lost intrest (we both are our first). I used to buy her a lot of things but I can't anymore as I'm always in debt. I'm just affraid of loosing her... she is the only person who treats me like I'm human.

littlewing · #5 (**permalink**) 15-05-08, 08:07 AM

Buying things doesn't fix relationships, real relationships that is. She could have gotten bored with you, you can show her some sides of you she hasn't seen before (hopefuly you got some). Do something different and exciting... some romantic movies have great ideas...

Mr Wigglz · #6 (**permalink**) 15-05-08, 08:26 AM

There are no romantic places in my town (as I said its a hole) she dosnt like watchimg movies becuse she used to work in a dvd shop. She avoids my house becuse my parents keep telling me to dump her and I avoid her house becuse her parents do the whole school bulling on me. We only spend like a max of 1hr with each other...

lesa · #7 (**permalink**) 15-05-08, 09:12 AM

First, can you get an apartment or even better purchase a house?

Mr Wigglz · #8 (**permalink**) 15-05-08, 09:50 AM

I was going to move out with a friend but he decided to move in with another friend leaving me in the dark. I had all plans for it but yea he ditched me. My girlfriend dosnt want to move out with me for another few years

Kromat · #9 (**permalink**) 16-05-08, 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr Wigglz

We both finished highschool (we are 19). I don't realy find myself as a good looking person. I have looked for better jobs but there isn't any around in this town. But I don't want to move town and leave her behind. Its been a few months since we have "done anything" aka in the bedroom. Its like she has lost intrest (we both are our first). I used to buy her a lot of things but I can't anymore as I'm always in debt. I'm just affraid of loosing her... she is the only person who treats me like I'm human.

Your still very young , so try going back to school, If you can.
Your as good of a person, If your confidence is there.
You Don't have to be the best looking guy to get a Girl interested, you have to believe yourself to overcome any obstacle put forth in your path.
Everyone is capable of doing anything, if they truly enjoy what they are doing.
Find Work based on what interests, and not just to get a pay cheque.

Gigabitch · #10 (**permalink**) 16-05-08, 12:48 AM

Get out of that town and take her with you.

Mr Wigglz · #11 (**permalink**) 16-05-08, 01:40 AM

We both have talked about moving out of town next year but I doubt we will do it as she just got a loan out. I realy want to leave this place as it has so many bad memorys and its full of a lot of bad people. My mind is all messed up and I'm stressing to much over everything. I want to move to a place where there is pleanty of jobs but with intrest rates and me wanting to get into a trade to set our life up. There is no jobs anywhere. I want to get a job that can support both of us. I.e a trade. I stress to much