She Told me......

[Jisgore]

Well there's is something happening to me at this time that is driving me crazy with this amazing girl i met a couple of months ago.

Here i i go...

I friend of mine introduced me this girl one day by phone, we where talking and for some reason we kind of had a connection and since that day we haven't stopped talking no even for 1 day.

Then we finally met in person but that day we couldn't be together cuz i had to do something.(this was one week after we met)

Next week she came to my house, she told me she wanted to come to my house and we watched a movie and stuff....then i realized that i really liked her so i kissed her, then i told her to come with me to the backyard to eat something and then i couldn't get a hold of myself cause like i said i really like her so i kissed her again and she kissed me back, after all that for some reason she gave me a hug (the sweetest one i ever had) and finally when she was going home she said good bye to me with another kiss.

Then we kept talking and i let her know that i really liked her but she told me that she liked me to but then she told me that she only saw as a friend and i said to that the same but that i liked her besides our friendship, then i told her that we could see if we can work things out some other way but keepping our friendship first and she agreed.

We kept talking on the phone all this time, another detail she is the one that always call me, of course i call her to but she is always there calling and wanting to talk to me.

She came to my house again we watched a movie then we kissed again and we ended up in bed. was wonderful) im telling you that we are totally into each other but she keep telling me the friends stuff and we keep talking and all that. i tell her things from time to time and she has never told me that it bithers her or something.

the next day we talked about that day and she told me that she wouldn't change what happen for nothing and she will repeat it as many time she can handle.
She told that she saw me like a friend with rights or something then i told her that for me that doesn't exist in this case cuz i feel this chemistry with us and she agreed.

so im confused i really like her and she keeps the friends stuff she have only told me that 2 times and we keep talking every single day.. I dont know what to do or how to get this to work, First time i feel this way with someone im without ideas or anything.

please someone help me. im desperate and i dont want to screw this with her. I feel like a kid again with no idea of what im doing.

thank you very much for reading my wall of massive text.

[1averagejoe]

Friends with benefits...she pretty much said it herself.

Sounds like she's just looking for a good time. I wouldn't be surprised if she's seeing someone else either.

[Jisgore]

could be..... but as i see the things the time she has to see someone if she actually is... she is talking with me she doesn't go out that much... i know she wouldn't lie to me... and by how the things went when we went to bed she is not seen anyone (not having sex) because we had a hard time since she told me and i noticed she had a long time without doing it... something i forgot is that she told me that she wasn't looking for a relationship but is no that she wouldn't want to try..... and also yesterday we talked and i told here about us trying to be something else with no compromise for the moment to see how it goes and she agreed.. and i also told her that at this moment i couldn't see her as a friend cause i liked her to much and it will be a a possibility that we stopped talking cause of this, because of what happened because it wasn't going to be the same. she agreed and once again we keep talking.

im sorry for my english im not american. im form the caribbean.

[Cain]

Usually when people are using someone for a piece of ass or just wanting friends with benefits, they don't try to form some emotional connection. By calling every day, she's showing that there is some chemistry there.

I've known people that have friends with benefits. It's a talk once or twice a week thing with most of the conversations ending in bed.