holding her hand - Love Forum

bumbum · #1 (**permalink**) 27-04-04, 07:52 AM

i m with this girl

how do i hold her hand?

meaning, how do i make the reach for her hand?

do i just reach and hold her hand without saying anything?, or do i ask her for permission?, how do i do it?, can you guys suggest a example to follow or something similar that can be easily done?

thanks

hallanole · #2 (**permalink**) 27-04-04, 08:35 AM

just grab her hand. trust me she's probably waiting for you and too shy herself.

if your walking through the mall or whatever just get closer and slid your hand in hers.

bumbum · #3 (**permalink**) 27-04-04, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by hallanole

just grab her hand. trust me she's probably waiting for you and too shy herself.

if your walking through the mall or whatever just get closer and slid your hand in hers.

what happens if she looks at me or says something?

do i keep walking after i hold her hand?, or shud i say something?

and how do i hold her hand?, like what sort of positions?

bumbum · #4 (**permalink**) 27-04-04, 08:53 AM

and also, how do i move in for a hug?

hallanole · #5 (**permalink**) 27-04-04, 08:57 AM

she probably won't say anything. mostly a big smile and thinking "omg omg omg" in her head.

just look over and give her a smile. if your walking keep walking. if your sitting or whatever. keep doing what you are doing.

holding her hand. however it feels natural. usually lacing the fingers, that is the more intimate form.

moving in for a hug. go for it. i'm sure you hugged a famliy member a million times. it's the same motion. just hold on a bit longer.

bumbum · #6 (**permalink**) 27-04-04, 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by hallanole

she probably won't say anything. mostly a big smile and thinking "omg omg omg" in her head.

just look over and give her a smile. if your walking keep walking. if your sitting or whatever. keep doing what you are doing.

holding her hand. however it feels natural. usually lacing the fingers, that is the more intimate form.

moving in for a hug. go for it. i'm sure you hugged a famliy member a million times. it's the same motion. just hold on a bit longer.

but do i just pop up, say hi, and hug her?, outta nowhere?

do you mean lacing fingers like putting my fingers thru her fingers and curling it or something?

and how do i know if she wants a kiss?, like, what sorta signals can i tell from?

bumbum · #7 (**permalink**) 27-04-04, 09:17 AM

and how do i move in for a kiss?

SecretDontTell · #8 (**permalink**) 27-04-04, 01:44 PM

Quit being a little bitch and do it. If you kiss her out of nowhere, she'll be too surprised to slap you

bumbum · #9 (**permalink**) 29-04-04, 05:10 AM

if her hands in her sleeve, do i wait for my next shot?, waht do i do?

bumbum · #10 (**permalink**) 30-04-04, 12:54 PM

any help at all?, please?

i m going to go with her to a park for a walk soon on a nice day and then get her ice cream afterwards... what do you guys think?

bumbum · #11 (**permalink**) 08-05-04, 06:29 AM

she has this thing where she keeps her hand inside a jackets sleeve or just a jacket over it and i rarely see her walking with her hand loose at her side

how should i make the move for it?

bumbum · #12 (**permalink**) 11-05-04, 09:45 AM

help?...please?

Exodus · #13 (**permalink**) 11-05-04, 10:28 AM

you could try putting your arm around her back instead of her hand.

bumbum · #14 (**permalink**) 12-05-04, 05:33 AM

do i put my arm around her back and hold her in tightly or jus like loosely?

BillyGalbreath · #15 (**permalink**) 12-05-04, 05:46 AM

dude - no gorilla death grips - just hold her intimately