Dont know what to do

[soL309]

Hi everyone, im new here, my friends havent been giving me very good advice so i thought id shoot my problems over here, so here goes.

A few days ago, a friend of mine and i were talking about my girlfriend, i asked her if she knew her and gave her her name, she said yes, because she was the girl that cheated on her with her boyfriend, well when i found this out, my heart sank into my stomach, i couldnt believe it, and so i kinda broke up with her, not giving her the real reason as to why i decided to break up, were not on talking terms right now, but then today i find out that not only did she cheat with her ex boyfriend on this girl multiple times, but she did it more in the summer, before we got together, and she supposedly cheated on her ex boyfriend while they were going out, i love her so much, i waited 3 years to date her, and we've been going out for 6 months now, im not sure what to do? should i end it or try to trust her and work things out, any advice is greatly appreciated, thank you.

[squirrley]

Oh man-you shouldve talked to her first-let her know you had some concerns...theres always 2 sides to a story. Now that youve ended it with her the trust is gone no matter what. Even if you do go back to her and tell her why-shes gonna be pissed!!

I guess if you really truly like this girl and are willing to accept the truth you should talk to her. but be prepared to face the bs when going in! Shes gonna be hurt-and what not-because that was before YOU and you might not have all the details or facts about the situation. If that WAS true-and youre concerned of her doing it to you then I would suggest to not talk to her and let it go. You will ALWAYS have that in the back of your mind and you will never be able to fully trust her.

Goodluck man!!!