Please help as fast as you can.

[Cain]

Like I said before, my opinion on this matter would be completely different if she wasn't sleeping with some other man. If she just needed a break to find herself, I'd be a lot more supportive of you going back to her after the summer is over. But you have to think that her definition of finding herself is SLEEPING with ANOTHER MAN. Are you really okay with that? Do you really see nothing wrong with that? I will repeat what I've said... if she really loved you, she would NOT be sleeping with another man right now.

[Citycat]

Cain is right. I can't believe it doesn't make you angry that she's sleeping with another guy! Imagine her swallowing his *** Are you angry now? Not yet? Do I need to write more explicit things for you to get the idea?
Secondly, I don't see why it would be a problem for you to see her on campus. You're seeing her now in your hometown. Once you're over someone, you're over. I think it's even better when you meet your ex more often - you get over her easier.
Don't waste your chance for getting education. Women like successful men. Go and upgrade yourself. Moreover, when you move to a bigger place there's a bigger number of people and girls to meet. As for your local friends, keep contact, true friends never turn their back on you. I know that the first cut is the deepest, but trust me, you must pull it through now, otherwise you'll be always letting the girls mop the floor with you and your feelings.
Best wishes man. Don't be hard on yourself, you have no reasons to be.

[Gigabitch]

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Originally Posted by theguy

somewhere inside of her is a completley different girl....

No, Theguy, somewhere inside of her is his dick. You're being too forgiving because you don't want to lose this girl, but you need to understand that you've already lost her. You're holding on to a fantasy at this point.

The time will come when you see her on campus and say to yourself, "Man, what was I thinking?" Then you'll turn to your girlfriend (who will be wonderful, by the way) and say, "I almost missed meeting you because I didn't want to be anywhere near that girl over there. yeah, the one who doesn't compare to you at all. boy am I glad I listened to those people on LF!"